"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"****y-Funny & Busting"

PrinceBeavis

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Just got an e-mail from David D, about C/F and busting...

...Now, I've been known to joke with women similar to that. But here's the thing. I've got to be in the mood for this, and it has to be the right time. I know I will F*#k myself if I try to do something like this at the wrong time, or if I force it.

And that material. If I asked a woman "where she got that ugly dress," and she said "Old Navy," and I said "you were in the Navy?" she wouldn't think it funny, she would think I was a blithering IDIOT.

My point? ****y/funny, and some friendly busting? Absolutely! But to the point where I was being a prick, or sounding like a bufoon? Really now.

I mean, to do it the same way you would joke with buddies, sure, but there's a point where a buddy would want to kick my @ss, and a woman would want to see me get it kicked.

Seriously...how far is this sheit supposed to go?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Zen Energy

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I don't got it TOTALLY figured out, but the thing with C/F is its more a matter of balance and not passing a certain boundary, once it hits your subconscious, it pours out with an almost perfect balance. 50% humor and 50% wiseass tactics. I for a while had a reputation for being a bit of a wiseass.....unfortunately, i started to become more boring than wet paint drying.
 

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PrinceBeavis said:
Whatsamatter? None of you "studs" got this figured out either?
Ouch that stings. Air quotes gets me every time.


If I asked a woman "where she got that ugly dress," and she said "Old Navy," and I said "you were in the Navy?" she wouldn't think it funny, she would think I was a blithering IDIOT.
Which part of this is ****y or funny let alone both? Kind of hard to be down on C&F when your example is neither.

My point? ****y/funny, and some friendly busting? Absolutely! But to the point where I was being a prick, or sounding like a bufoon? Really now.
If you're BEING A PRICK then it's not funny. Funny to her. Not you.
 

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PrinceBeavis said:
Just got an e-mail from David D, about C/F and busting...

...Now, I've been known to joke with women similar to that. But here's the thing. I've got to be in the mood for this, and it has to be the right time. I know I will F*#k myself if I try to do something like this at the wrong time, or if I force it.

And that material. If I asked a woman "where she got that ugly dress," and she said "Old Navy," and I said "you were in the Navy?" she wouldn't think it funny, she would think I was a blithering IDIOT.

My point? ****y/funny, and some friendly busting? Absolutely! But to the point where I was being a prick, or sounding like a bufoon? Really now.

I mean, to do it the same way you would joke with buddies, sure, but there's a point where a buddy would want to kick my @ss, and a woman would want to see me get it kicked.

Seriously...how far is this sheit supposed to go?
you can get away with lots of C&F if you never Qualify yourself. Remember women become attracted when they are frustrated a little, I know it makes no sense . until you see it a thousand times.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Myriad By Python

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I believe C/F should not be the main theme in an interaction. It should be just thrown in there like a spice. I really think a lot of girls (unless they're dumb.. or 14 yrs old) are too mature for C/F, I feel they want something more during an interaction.

My advice, start learning how to have fun with the girl rather than just busting on her the entire time.
 
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