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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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****y And Funny Responses To Her Compliments

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What are some responses you can say to a girl that are ****y and funny after she compliments you? I'm pretty new to the game and theres been plenty of times in school where a girls complimented me and I've wanted to say something more original than just "thankyou". I've come up with one and if you got any other lines or suggestions that would be great.

After she gives you a compliment you smile, laugh, and say, "Thats so cute, are trying to win me over already?"

If theres another thread like this, tell me, but if not post your own, and it would be great to see this thread full of examples and information on this particular subject.
 

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redspicyflag said:
my fav-

"I bet you say that to all the guys"

heh... this gave me quite a chuckle.

heres one

"You should try harder.... because that **** ain't getting me to bed"
 

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Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yea I'm only looking for lines to say in response to her compliments. So that the next time it happens I can give a response instantly and I don't have to think about it.
 

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...Girl gives guy a compliment (Assuming it is a genuine compliment, no test or manipulation) and he gives a C&F comment.

Do you realize how backwards that is?

You want to be moving an interaction forward, not backwards.

I call this overgaming, using things that aren't necessary. She is attracted to some extent for the simple fact that she complimented you and your actually going to say a C&F comment to her. That is what I call uncalibrated, heck I'd rather go in for the kiss than try to make some C&F comment right after she gave me a COMPLIMENT atleast I know I'm moving forward and not backwards and who knows she might just kiss me.

This is why all these techniques don't work because guys are miss applying it.
 

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In my opinion, the best thing to do is think of responses that a very ****y/popular girl would say to you if you were trying to win her over by complimenting her. Have the mind frame that YOU are the prize, and she is complimenting you to get into your pants. (Yes, make it the other way around!)

A response many guys get when they compliment a girl out of their league is: "I bet you say that to every girl you meet."
Therefore, I would have to say the best response in this thread would be: "I bet you say that to every guy you meet." OR "Wow, that's a lame pick-up line!" Either way, make sure you do it properly. It needs to be funny AND ****y. As for Eugene123's line, I would only use it if I knew the girl for a little longer. If its a cold approach and you just met a girl, the first line would be recommended.

(By the way, If a girl gives you a compliment, don't make it sound like the best thing in the girl. Always have the unpleased look in your face, as if you get compliments like that all the time. I don't know how many guys I know that turn red in the face and smile when a girl gives them a compliment. Lame much?!)
 

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If a woman compliments you, treats you (buys you a drink) etc. Graciously accept and a simple thank you.

If you constantly try to be ****y and funny, you're going to end up making an ass out of yourself at some point. In her mind, your good behavior merits reward, don't change that.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
...Girl gives guy a compliment (Assuming it is a genuine compliment, no test or manipulation) and he gives a C&F comment.

Do you realize how backwards that is?

You want to be moving an interaction forward, not backwards.

I call this overgaming, using things that aren't necessary. She is attracted to some extent for the simple fact that she complimented you and your actually going to say a C&F comment to her. That is what I call uncalibrated, heck I'd rather go in for the kiss than try to make some C&F comment right after she gave me a COMPLIMENT atleast I know I'm moving forward and not backwards and who knows she might just kiss me.

This is why all these techniques don't work because guys are miss applying it.
What if she IS just testing you and she isnt attracted to you yet, then should should you say a C/F response to her?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kmart1208 said:
What if she IS just testing you and she isnt attracted to you yet, then should should you say a C/F response to her?
If a chick is testing you she's attracted...it really depends on the persons personality as to what exactly they'd do. I honestly can't say exactly what I'd say because it isn't happening right here right now, I don't think ahead I just roll with it.

In most cases I'm overqualified so I wouldn't really do much to make my self even more overqualified so I might just misinterpret it as a compliment. So what I'm saying is if she complimented me as a way of manipulation I'll still act as if she was genuinely complimenting and I'd probably grab her saying "You get one cookie later to night" or some stupid reward.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
...Girl gives guy a compliment (Assuming it is a genuine compliment, no test or manipulation) and he gives a C&F comment.

Do you realize how backwards that is?

You want to be moving an interaction forward, not backwards.

I call this overgaming, using things that aren't necessary. She is attracted to some extent for the simple fact that she complimented you and your actually going to say a C&F comment to her. That is what I call uncalibrated, heck I'd rather go in for the kiss than try to make some C&F comment right after she gave me a COMPLIMENT atleast I know I'm moving forward and not backwards and who knows she might just kiss me.

This is why all these techniques don't work because guys are miss applying it.
I agree, you don't need to C&F at every opportunity that you possibly can. If you C&F at every possible time then you're only going to come across as a jerk.

In a situation where a girl compliments me, I say "Thanks." But that's not the only thing I do. My voice tone is as if I get that all the time and it's almost annoying me.
 
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