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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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****y And Funny Responses To Her Compliments

Kmart1208

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What are some responses you can say to a girl that are ****y and funny after she compliments you? I'm pretty new to the game and theres been plenty of times in school where a girls complimented me and I've wanted to say something more original than just "thankyou". I've come up with one and if you got any other lines or suggestions that would be great.

After she gives you a compliment you smile, laugh, and say, "Thats so cute, are trying to win me over already?"

If theres another thread like this, tell me, but if not post your own, and it would be great to see this thread full of examples and information on this particular subject.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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redspicyflag said:
my fav-

"I bet you say that to all the guys"

heh... this gave me quite a chuckle.

heres one

"You should try harder.... because that **** ain't getting me to bed"
 

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Kmart1208

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Yea I'm only looking for lines to say in response to her compliments. So that the next time it happens I can give a response instantly and I don't have to think about it.
 

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...Girl gives guy a compliment (Assuming it is a genuine compliment, no test or manipulation) and he gives a C&F comment.

Do you realize how backwards that is?

You want to be moving an interaction forward, not backwards.

I call this overgaming, using things that aren't necessary. She is attracted to some extent for the simple fact that she complimented you and your actually going to say a C&F comment to her. That is what I call uncalibrated, heck I'd rather go in for the kiss than try to make some C&F comment right after she gave me a COMPLIMENT atleast I know I'm moving forward and not backwards and who knows she might just kiss me.

This is why all these techniques don't work because guys are miss applying it.
 

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In my opinion, the best thing to do is think of responses that a very ****y/popular girl would say to you if you were trying to win her over by complimenting her. Have the mind frame that YOU are the prize, and she is complimenting you to get into your pants. (Yes, make it the other way around!)

A response many guys get when they compliment a girl out of their league is: "I bet you say that to every girl you meet."
Therefore, I would have to say the best response in this thread would be: "I bet you say that to every guy you meet." OR "Wow, that's a lame pick-up line!" Either way, make sure you do it properly. It needs to be funny AND ****y. As for Eugene123's line, I would only use it if I knew the girl for a little longer. If its a cold approach and you just met a girl, the first line would be recommended.

(By the way, If a girl gives you a compliment, don't make it sound like the best thing in the girl. Always have the unpleased look in your face, as if you get compliments like that all the time. I don't know how many guys I know that turn red in the face and smile when a girl gives them a compliment. Lame much?!)
 

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If a woman compliments you, treats you (buys you a drink) etc. Graciously accept and a simple thank you.

If you constantly try to be ****y and funny, you're going to end up making an ass out of yourself at some point. In her mind, your good behavior merits reward, don't change that.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
...Girl gives guy a compliment (Assuming it is a genuine compliment, no test or manipulation) and he gives a C&F comment.

Do you realize how backwards that is?

You want to be moving an interaction forward, not backwards.

I call this overgaming, using things that aren't necessary. She is attracted to some extent for the simple fact that she complimented you and your actually going to say a C&F comment to her. That is what I call uncalibrated, heck I'd rather go in for the kiss than try to make some C&F comment right after she gave me a COMPLIMENT atleast I know I'm moving forward and not backwards and who knows she might just kiss me.

This is why all these techniques don't work because guys are miss applying it.
What if she IS just testing you and she isnt attracted to you yet, then should should you say a C/F response to her?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kmart1208 said:
What if she IS just testing you and she isnt attracted to you yet, then should should you say a C/F response to her?
If a chick is testing you she's attracted...it really depends on the persons personality as to what exactly they'd do. I honestly can't say exactly what I'd say because it isn't happening right here right now, I don't think ahead I just roll with it.

In most cases I'm overqualified so I wouldn't really do much to make my self even more overqualified so I might just misinterpret it as a compliment. So what I'm saying is if she complimented me as a way of manipulation I'll still act as if she was genuinely complimenting and I'd probably grab her saying "You get one cookie later to night" or some stupid reward.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
...Girl gives guy a compliment (Assuming it is a genuine compliment, no test or manipulation) and he gives a C&F comment.

Do you realize how backwards that is?

You want to be moving an interaction forward, not backwards.

I call this overgaming, using things that aren't necessary. She is attracted to some extent for the simple fact that she complimented you and your actually going to say a C&F comment to her. That is what I call uncalibrated, heck I'd rather go in for the kiss than try to make some C&F comment right after she gave me a COMPLIMENT atleast I know I'm moving forward and not backwards and who knows she might just kiss me.

This is why all these techniques don't work because guys are miss applying it.
I agree, you don't need to C&F at every opportunity that you possibly can. If you C&F at every possible time then you're only going to come across as a jerk.

In a situation where a girl compliments me, I say "Thanks." But that's not the only thing I do. My voice tone is as if I get that all the time and it's almost annoying me.
 
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