"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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x-mas is coming up.

(JJ)

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and i was wondering something. i've already pretty much made up my mind but i'd like some input. how AFC is it to MAKE a present for an ltr? not like something dumb but something really nice. i feel like it would work with the foundation i've laid here. like this girl is really sweet and nice and is always so appreciative of complements (that she's earned) and that leads me to believe that i'll be glorified for doing something sweet like that. what do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crazy Asian

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just make it meaningful
it's not afc if it's a ltr.
 

Plec07

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Go for it mate. If your in a ltr then your allowed to do all that sweet, lovey dovey crap without being AFC. It generally increases their interest for you in a ltr. The reason it doesn't when your not in an ltr with them is because it comes across as needy, because they havn't done anything to deserve it. You have no reason to show you love them. With an ltr you do.
 
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