"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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x-mas is coming up.

(JJ)

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and i was wondering something. i've already pretty much made up my mind but i'd like some input. how AFC is it to MAKE a present for an ltr? not like something dumb but something really nice. i feel like it would work with the foundation i've laid here. like this girl is really sweet and nice and is always so appreciative of complements (that she's earned) and that leads me to believe that i'll be glorified for doing something sweet like that. what do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Crazy Asian

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just make it meaningful
it's not afc if it's a ltr.
 

Plec07

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Go for it mate. If your in a ltr then your allowed to do all that sweet, lovey dovey crap without being AFC. It generally increases their interest for you in a ltr. The reason it doesn't when your not in an ltr with them is because it comes across as needy, because they havn't done anything to deserve it. You have no reason to show you love them. With an ltr you do.
 
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