"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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x-mas is coming up.

(JJ)

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and i was wondering something. i've already pretty much made up my mind but i'd like some input. how AFC is it to MAKE a present for an ltr? not like something dumb but something really nice. i feel like it would work with the foundation i've laid here. like this girl is really sweet and nice and is always so appreciative of complements (that she's earned) and that leads me to believe that i'll be glorified for doing something sweet like that. what do you guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Crazy Asian

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just make it meaningful
it's not afc if it's a ltr.
 

Plec07

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Go for it mate. If your in a ltr then your allowed to do all that sweet, lovey dovey crap without being AFC. It generally increases their interest for you in a ltr. The reason it doesn't when your not in an ltr with them is because it comes across as needy, because they havn't done anything to deserve it. You have no reason to show you love them. With an ltr you do.
 
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