"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Www.ihatemen.com
- Thread starter Don Juanabbe
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
CyranoDeBergerac
Master Don Juan
Whiny...succubus....molesting.....cursor......
.......can't.....wiggle...............free.......
.......can't.....wiggle...............free.......
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
LOL, no wonder they can't get real men. Cuz real men want real women!
Silquee Smoove
Master Don Juan
I've mentioned this website in the past, dammit...
Pay more attention!!!
Pay more attention!!!
If the original post or a mod could edit the links so that it's not linked directly.
Instread of the actual address type:
www[dot]ihatemen[dot]com
Cause if you connect it directly they'll be able to see the incoming where the incoming traffic is linked from and come here to b1tch and moan about misogyny.
Instread of the actual address type:
www[dot]ihatemen[dot]com
Cause if you connect it directly they'll be able to see the incoming where the incoming traffic is linked from and come here to b1tch and moan about misogyny.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
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The tips for men section has some good stuff, guys. Good for a refresher.
ToP DoN
Banned
HAHAHAH
interesting
interesting
I browsed through some of the threads there. I cant believe how stupid that website is. Its all why is he doing this to me, why why why. STFU Biatches. Maybe if you hit the gym instead of ordering a diet coke with your supersize value meal, or do something other than complain he would treat you different. Maybe if you gave us sex when we need it, NEED IT, instead of asking for **** just because you think its owed to you we would treat you better.
Anyways that site really pisses me off because its just a bunch of clueless females that bash men for no good reason.
Anyways that site really pisses me off because its just a bunch of clueless females that bash men for no good reason.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.