"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
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Thanks much for the link, Sazuko. I started my cycle last week and this will definitely give me much-needed information.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
That'd be ace =]
DJBen
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I've been pushed for time recently, my mums just had a serious op and is now out of hospital. Christ.. doing all the housework is cardio in itself!
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Tom Venuto, in my book, is one of the most respected guys in the fitness industry out there. If I was you, I'd pay my respect and buy it instead of downloading it illegally. Take that **** off the site, asap.
RussianRocket
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That's like saying it's okay to steal food because it grows everywhere and is readily available to anyone who desires it.
A select amount of people or not, it's wrong.
Take it down dude, I'm not saying this because I want to be an *******, I'm saying it because Tom deserves every cent he recieves.
The only thing worth knowing here is that the manual is worth the price. So go BUY it if you want it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RussianRocket
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Thanks bro, good karma to you.Originally posted by Sazuko
Wellllllllllllllllll ok
I agree tom is about the only guy I really respect, he's honest, doesn't BS at anytime.
For that I will take it offline, just cause he's the real deal.
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