"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
diablo
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Thanks much for the link, Sazuko. I started my cycle last week and this will definitely give me much-needed information.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DJBen
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That'd be ace =]
DJBen
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I've been pushed for time recently, my mums just had a serious op and is now out of hospital. Christ.. doing all the housework is cardio in itself!
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Tom Venuto, in my book, is one of the most respected guys in the fitness industry out there. If I was you, I'd pay my respect and buy it instead of downloading it illegally. Take that **** off the site, asap.
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That's like saying it's okay to steal food because it grows everywhere and is readily available to anyone who desires it.
A select amount of people or not, it's wrong.
Take it down dude, I'm not saying this because I want to be an *******, I'm saying it because Tom deserves every cent he recieves.
The only thing worth knowing here is that the manual is worth the price. So go BUY it if you want it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Thanks bro, good karma to you.Originally posted by Sazuko
Wellllllllllllllllll ok
I agree tom is about the only guy I really respect, he's honest, doesn't BS at anytime.
For that I will take it offline, just cause he's the real deal.
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