"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
diablo
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Thanks much for the link, Sazuko. I started my cycle last week and this will definitely give me much-needed information.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
That'd be ace =]
DJBen
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I've been pushed for time recently, my mums just had a serious op and is now out of hospital. Christ.. doing all the housework is cardio in itself!
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Tom Venuto, in my book, is one of the most respected guys in the fitness industry out there. If I was you, I'd pay my respect and buy it instead of downloading it illegally. Take that **** off the site, asap.
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That's like saying it's okay to steal food because it grows everywhere and is readily available to anyone who desires it.
A select amount of people or not, it's wrong.
Take it down dude, I'm not saying this because I want to be an *******, I'm saying it because Tom deserves every cent he recieves.
The only thing worth knowing here is that the manual is worth the price. So go BUY it if you want it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Thanks bro, good karma to you.Originally posted by Sazuko
Wellllllllllllllllll ok
I agree tom is about the only guy I really respect, he's honest, doesn't BS at anytime.
For that I will take it offline, just cause he's the real deal.
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