"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WWDJD if a gay guy hit on him?

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It seems that going to the gym and good looks can attract the wrong kind of attention.
It makes me feel really uncomfortable... seems like an AFC fag. Has asked me three times if i live on campus. :nervous:

Whenever he talks to me now, i just try to be friendly but blow him off like i'm doing my own thing.
Frankly i don't wanna know anything about his sexual orientation.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I donno i'm a friendly kind of person. I say hi to everyone. Besides it's awkward to just ignore someone when they come up and talk to you. What am i supposed to do look away?
We have a lot of gay people at our school, so i just try to ignore them for the most part. I didn't know this guy was a fag until he started hitting on me and by that time i was almost friends with him.

Common this is a serious problem!! I could see how to a girl this would be a turn on.
I was laughing at my friend when she told me one of her friends had tried to make out with her... now i'm not laughing anymore. :(
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Microphone Fiend said:
just be polite and tell him you're flattered but you arent a homosexual. Say it nicely and firmly and you should be cool.
Yeah. It's a compliment if a Gay guy hits on you. It's happened to me a few times, I say "Thanks, but no thanks" (or similar), and then a few have become friends. Well dressed "classy" gay guys = chick magnets, so being their straight friend is a very very good thing.

If he's just being friendly though, perhaps he's just a nice guy?
 

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I donno i'm a friendly kind of person. I say hi to everyone. Besides it's awkward to just ignore someone when they come up and talk to you. What am i supposed to do look away?
We have a lot of gay people at our school, so i just try to ignore them for the most part. I didn't know this guy was a fag until he started hitting on me and by that time i was almost friends with him.

Common this is a serious problem!! I could see how to a girl this would be a turn on.
I was laughing at my friend when she told me one of her friends had tried to make out with her... now i'm not laughing anymore. :(

If you're sure he's trying to hit on you then you can just make it clear you're not a homosexual by some indirect comment, ie, i'm dating this girl, or whatever. If someone asked me if I lived on campus I wouldn't read too much into it but that's just me.

I was at a bar once w/2 girls... this guy came up to me and said "you're a handsome guy" and told the girls i was with, "he's a real handsome guy! You guys are lucky!" I just said thank you and ignored him. The girls I was with asked if I knew him. This was not a gay bar so I don't know why he came up to me like that.
 

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stinkyape said:
Yeah. It's a compliment if a Gay guy hits on you. It's happened to me a few times, I say "Thanks, but no thanks" (or similar), and then a few have become friends. Well dressed "classy" gay guys = chick magnets, so being their straight friend is a very very good thing.

If he's just being friendly though, perhaps he's just a nice guy?
Yea, i'm not quite sure if he's gay, that's why i was hesitant about just blurting that out.
Maybe you're right, maybe he just wants friends really bad. Either way, i'm just gonna try to avoid him. He creeps me out.

If he approaches me again i'll use that gf line. thanx, for the help guys.
 

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Gyms are LOADED with gay guys. Looks are everything in the gay world. Most of you seem to be on the fast track to attracting gay men. What you think girls want is what gay boys covet.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sparky0000 said:
Gyms are LOADED with gay guys. Looks are everything in the gay world. Most of you seem to be on the fast track to attracting gay men. What you think girls want is what gay boys covet.
Hahahaha this is grand! You know I've always been a little paranoid that there are some gay forum stooges here on SoSuave, with the intent to convert young aspiring dons to the bareback way. Most guys here are a little fruity if you ask me.
 

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Let's not call them "gay." Gay is just a word homosexuals made up so they can justify their sick and perverted acts. Gay means: happy, cheerful, etc. Look it up. It has nothing to do with being a homosexual. Call them homosexuals because that is the proper word. Btw, I am heterosexual and I don't find that offensive, so homos should be fine with being called that.
 

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Gyms are LOADED with gay guys. Looks are everything in the gay world. Most of you seem to be on the fast track to attracting gay men. What you think girls want is what gay boys covet.
Hahahaha. Well i'm sure they think just like women, so its all good. They're probably just a little more forward about it.
I mean common, what girl doesn't like a guy that's in shape?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ryannath said:
Let's not call them "gay." Gay is just a word homosexuals made up so they can justify their sick and perverted acts. Gay means: happy, cheerful, etc. Look it up. It has nothing to do with being a homosexual. Call them homosexuals because that is the proper word. Btw, I am heterosexual and I don't find that offensive, so homos should be fine with being called that.
Sick and perverted huh... Okkkkay buddy. Someone is a homophobe. When did consentual sex become sick and perverted?
 

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Sick and perverted huh... Okkkkay buddy. Someone is a homophobe. When did consentual sex become sick and perverted?

They're not bothering me any. No, I don't think they made a choice to become gay. No, they're not tracking me down to rape me. No they don't bother me, so get over it.
 

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Hahahaha. Well i'm sure they think just like women, so its all good. They're probably just a little more forward about it.
I mean common, what girl doesn't like a guy that's in shape?
You know nothing about females. Absolutely nothing. Wow, no wonder some of you are so lost. Gay guys think like men. There is a reason that every STD travels through the gay community like wildfire. They have TONS of sex. Just like most of you would do if you could. Their thought process has little to nothing in common with the typical healthy female. Maybe 40 year old divorce types might think like they do, but those are not normal healthy females.

I really question if any of you have gotten to know a female who isn't a tramp. Every girl I deal with is very stiff and uncomfortable when it comes to anything more than a kiss. I suspect if the girl you are with is different, than she is probably a HPV infected tramp.

Homosexuals are sick. Just that American society has led you to believe that gay guys are cool. Try spreading that myth around Eastern Europe. The Western Europeans have and it has gotten even more hatred directed towards gays. Go visit dlist.com. Tell me that homosexuality isn't just another way to get lots of action.
 

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lol, very true, Teacher, but is there a way to pull them from the matrix?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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