"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WTF!? weird

Anthony_Training

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OK, well today I gave out my number to these chicks at where I work (the carwash). They gave me a call and thanked me and said they'd call me later to hang out probably. (7:30)

10:30 rolls around and I figure, hey I'll call and say hi. The girl who called before answers and acts extremely hostile... she wouldn't even tell me her name when I asked... its just kinda bizarro imo, but I figure its totally a NEXT, but why would anyone act like that?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TRUST NO BYTCH. :mad: :mad: :mad: Im fkin pissed right now... tought I'd come to the sosuave boards to read some isnpirational stuff and I see THIS injustice! FAKC...bytchess.:mad: ...i have issues today.
 

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Girls dont really have logic or common sense, they probably just didnt know what to do with your number...


or they could just be messed up, or screwing with you
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hah, the girl called me up today at 2:45 and apologized to me. Then she asked if we could do something today. She said she had a bad night last night because she was forced to hang out alone with some loser and watch the disney channel... whatever that means...

So we are going to the movies at 6:30

What do you suppose we do afterwords?

She is eating dinner with her father at 5:00

Grab a late night something somewhere?
 
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