"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WTF!? weird

Anthony_Training

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OK, well today I gave out my number to these chicks at where I work (the carwash). They gave me a call and thanked me and said they'd call me later to hang out probably. (7:30)

10:30 rolls around and I figure, hey I'll call and say hi. The girl who called before answers and acts extremely hostile... she wouldn't even tell me her name when I asked... its just kinda bizarro imo, but I figure its totally a NEXT, but why would anyone act like that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TRUST NO BYTCH. :mad: :mad: :mad: Im fkin pissed right now... tought I'd come to the sosuave boards to read some isnpirational stuff and I see THIS injustice! FAKC...bytchess.:mad: ...i have issues today.
 

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Girls dont really have logic or common sense, they probably just didnt know what to do with your number...


or they could just be messed up, or screwing with you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hah, the girl called me up today at 2:45 and apologized to me. Then she asked if we could do something today. She said she had a bad night last night because she was forced to hang out alone with some loser and watch the disney channel... whatever that means...

So we are going to the movies at 6:30

What do you suppose we do afterwords?

She is eating dinner with her father at 5:00

Grab a late night something somewhere?
 
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