"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WTF!! I've been burning 1000-1200 calories

verysuave

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a day at the gym doing cardio to loose my gut but my weight keeps going UP and UP!!

what is wrong with me.. Did anyone go through this phase and what is usually the end result.

Ive been buring 1000 calories a day for 5 days now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cardio & calorie restriction do not work for most people. do a search here on losing weight or losing bodyfat.
 

WesCottII

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Yeah, but how many have you been taking in?

E.g If, hypothetically your BMR = 2000, you're buring off 1000, but taking in 4000, is a net gain of 1000c a day.
 

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a day at the gym doing cardio to loose my gut but my weight keeps going UP and UP!!

what is wrong with me.. Did anyone go through this phase and what is usually the end result.

Ive been buring 1000 calories a day for 5 days now.
OK, you need to get a firm grip on your intake, like the others have said. Give us a typical day's diet - an HONEST account :) Then we can figure out what the hell is up.

-shaun
 

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somes i go through phases where I lose weight even though im getting stronger. The overall end result is that I end up bigger though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shaunuk

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Ignore the scale. Use a mirror.
That's excellent advice kerpal :). Bodybuilders or even many of the big lads here are technically obese according to things such as weight and BMI - but their body fat % in general is reasonably low. The scale doesn't know what your body composition is or what you look like - use the mirror to gauge your process :up:

-shaun
 

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and forget gauging any progress over anything less than a month or two. lots of things contribute to weight fluctuations over anything less than that, especially water retention.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Kerpal said:
Ignore the scale. Use a mirror.
Better yet use a tape measure, it's more accurate.
 

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Amen to the suggestions above, the scale is the devil.

Even the mirror and tape measure can be dangerous if you want to compusively use them every day, like me.

I found the best indicator of progress was a monthly front and profile picture, one week is just too short of a time to notice any changes, on the scale or otherwise.
 
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