"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wtf is going on with me?

k201

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okay, well finally after 2 months of being with my girl, she wanted to have sex :)...so last night i went to her place (not knowing that she wanted to)...and we ended up getting naked nad her saying i want to have sex blah blah. Now heres where my problem was...i couldn't get hard! ie never had this problem before...i mean i wacked off beforehand and also yesterday but for some reason i couldnt get hard...she gave me head and i was hard for a little but then it just went away once i put on the condom...what you guys think i should do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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k201 said:
okay, well finally after 2 months of being with my girl, she wanted to have sex :)...so last night i went to her place (not knowing that she wanted to)...and we ended up getting naked nad her saying i want to have sex blah blah. Now heres where my problem was...i couldn't get hard! ie never had this problem before...i mean i wacked off beforehand and also yesterday but for some reason i couldnt get hard...she gave me head and i was hard for a little but then it just went away once i put on the condom...what you guys think i should do?
It sounds like you're nervous, and it's affecting you. Just try to relax.
 

djweses89

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if this is your first time having sex its def. nerves getting to ya wondering if your gunna be any good or not but just dont think about it and beat that ***** up haha
 

k201

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haha yea well this girl talks a BIG game and she is a lot more exerpienced then i am but i don't think that was the case...i could be wrogn though i dk ...so what are some tips u guys have on ow to relax? becuase it starting to bug we out i jsut want to put inside of her haha
 
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