"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wtf is going on with me?

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okay, well finally after 2 months of being with my girl, she wanted to have sex :)...so last night i went to her place (not knowing that she wanted to)...and we ended up getting naked nad her saying i want to have sex blah blah. Now heres where my problem was...i couldn't get hard! ie never had this problem before...i mean i wacked off beforehand and also yesterday but for some reason i couldnt get hard...she gave me head and i was hard for a little but then it just went away once i put on the condom...what you guys think i should do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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k201 said:
okay, well finally after 2 months of being with my girl, she wanted to have sex :)...so last night i went to her place (not knowing that she wanted to)...and we ended up getting naked nad her saying i want to have sex blah blah. Now heres where my problem was...i couldn't get hard! ie never had this problem before...i mean i wacked off beforehand and also yesterday but for some reason i couldnt get hard...she gave me head and i was hard for a little but then it just went away once i put on the condom...what you guys think i should do?
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It sounds like you're nervous, and it's affecting you. Just try to relax.
 
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if this is your first time having sex its def. nerves getting to ya wondering if your gunna be any good or not but just dont think about it and beat that ***** up haha
 
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haha yea well this girl talks a BIG game and she is a lot more exerpienced then i am but i don't think that was the case...i could be wrogn though i dk ...so what are some tips u guys have on ow to relax? becuase it starting to bug we out i jsut want to put inside of her haha
 
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