"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wtf is going on with me?

k201

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okay, well finally after 2 months of being with my girl, she wanted to have sex :)...so last night i went to her place (not knowing that she wanted to)...and we ended up getting naked nad her saying i want to have sex blah blah. Now heres where my problem was...i couldn't get hard! ie never had this problem before...i mean i wacked off beforehand and also yesterday but for some reason i couldnt get hard...she gave me head and i was hard for a little but then it just went away once i put on the condom...what you guys think i should do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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k201 said:
okay, well finally after 2 months of being with my girl, she wanted to have sex :)...so last night i went to her place (not knowing that she wanted to)...and we ended up getting naked nad her saying i want to have sex blah blah. Now heres where my problem was...i couldn't get hard! ie never had this problem before...i mean i wacked off beforehand and also yesterday but for some reason i couldnt get hard...she gave me head and i was hard for a little but then it just went away once i put on the condom...what you guys think i should do?
It sounds like you're nervous, and it's affecting you. Just try to relax.
 

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if this is your first time having sex its def. nerves getting to ya wondering if your gunna be any good or not but just dont think about it and beat that ***** up haha
 

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haha yea well this girl talks a BIG game and she is a lot more exerpienced then i am but i don't think that was the case...i could be wrogn though i dk ...so what are some tips u guys have on ow to relax? becuase it starting to bug we out i jsut want to put inside of her haha
 
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