"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Basically im kind of seeing this girl we have been on 1 date which i couldnt kiss close properly cos it was kinda awkward, so we hugged for ages getting a bit of feelage too :p , so she tells me she wants to go out either friday or saturday to the cinema.

now im thinking that cinema is kind of a bad idea and i dont know why, i was hoping to do something else other then watching the film but i dont know how to initiate it... so a little help :\
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ask her to watch a movie at your place instead and break out the alcohol.

Not too much though.

Also if you kids decide to kiss again for god's sakes don't stop even if you both don't know how.

How are either of you ever going to learn to do it right if you don't practice, practice, practice?!!!
 
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movie at my place is kind of impracticle. no tv in my room and parents will be using main tv downstairs so...
 
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Take her to bowling or pool, teach her how to play hands on approach. Take control and tell her place and time. If you hugged her for a long time, go in for the kiss when you're hugging, always works for me.

Personally, I would take her to dinner, gives me more opportunities to connect. So plan it out ahead and good luck!
 
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ive kinda already agreed to cinema saturday... but the film i wanted to watch (silent hill) has stopped showing... u reckon i can use that as an excuse and change plans to something else? maybe swiimming
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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