"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Basically im kind of seeing this girl we have been on 1 date which i couldnt kiss close properly cos it was kinda awkward, so we hugged for ages getting a bit of feelage too :p , so she tells me she wants to go out either friday or saturday to the cinema.

now im thinking that cinema is kind of a bad idea and i dont know why, i was hoping to do something else other then watching the film but i dont know how to initiate it... so a little help :\
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ask her to watch a movie at your place instead and break out the alcohol.

Not too much though.

Also if you kids decide to kiss again for god's sakes don't stop even if you both don't know how.

How are either of you ever going to learn to do it right if you don't practice, practice, practice?!!!
 
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movie at my place is kind of impracticle. no tv in my room and parents will be using main tv downstairs so...
 
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Take her to bowling or pool, teach her how to play hands on approach. Take control and tell her place and time. If you hugged her for a long time, go in for the kiss when you're hugging, always works for me.

Personally, I would take her to dinner, gives me more opportunities to connect. So plan it out ahead and good luck!
 
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ive kinda already agreed to cinema saturday... but the film i wanted to watch (silent hill) has stopped showing... u reckon i can use that as an excuse and change plans to something else? maybe swiimming
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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