"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Basically im kind of seeing this girl we have been on 1 date which i couldnt kiss close properly cos it was kinda awkward, so we hugged for ages getting a bit of feelage too :p , so she tells me she wants to go out either friday or saturday to the cinema.

now im thinking that cinema is kind of a bad idea and i dont know why, i was hoping to do something else other then watching the film but i dont know how to initiate it... so a little help :\
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ask her to watch a movie at your place instead and break out the alcohol.

Not too much though.

Also if you kids decide to kiss again for god's sakes don't stop even if you both don't know how.

How are either of you ever going to learn to do it right if you don't practice, practice, practice?!!!
 
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movie at my place is kind of impracticle. no tv in my room and parents will be using main tv downstairs so...
 
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Take her to bowling or pool, teach her how to play hands on approach. Take control and tell her place and time. If you hugged her for a long time, go in for the kiss when you're hugging, always works for me.

Personally, I would take her to dinner, gives me more opportunities to connect. So plan it out ahead and good luck!
 
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ive kinda already agreed to cinema saturday... but the film i wanted to watch (silent hill) has stopped showing... u reckon i can use that as an excuse and change plans to something else? maybe swiimming
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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