Wtf happened here?

[SargeMaximus]

Do you man the harpoons or are you picky?

What do you mean?

She gave you a road map. You were supposed to treat her like crap and be toxic.lol

Yeah I’m not here to be who some random girl wants me to be.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

To "man the harpoons" means to pull fat women.

 

[SargeMaximus]

To "man the harpoons" means to pull fat women.

Ah ok yea I man the harpoons but I also get decent chicks. A few weeks ago I was with a cute girl and I had an athelletic babe call me over 7 times over the course of 2 years but I could never get it up long with that one for some reason.
On average I get 6.5’a I’d say but I’ve had a few 8’s. My current fwb is large yes

 

[corrector]

I said “are you hoping that by talking like that I will want you?
She blocked me

It sounds like she got offended by the saecastic tone of that question. You should have been more probing (ie having a rough day?) and challenge her assumptions.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Ok was online dating app:

woman messaged me first

If this wasn't Bumble any woman opening you who isn't young and cute is a red flag

If you're on Bumble, the whole app is a red flag

 

[SargeMaximus]

This is what I like about sarge^^^... He keeps it real. Not an obvious fake Alpha larper... He likes to fvck, and gets what he can.

Yessir, realz before feelz

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She probably just had a bad day on the app and took it out on you as the next person she interacted with and made an emotional decision to block you.

 

[SargeMaximus]

She probably just had a bad day on the app and took it out on you as the next person she interacted with and made an emotional decision to block you.

And that’s why she’s still single

 

[BackInTheGame78]

And that’s why she’s still single

Ehh, everyone has bad days. Let's not pretend like any of us haven't lashed out at someone for no real reason just because we were having a sh!tty day.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Ok was online dating app:

Grow some balls and cold approach.

woman messaged me first
I asked what brought her my way
She said she’s giving me a chance
I said a chance at what?
She said “to be a piece of sh!t like every other guy”
I said “are you hoping that by talking like that I will want you?
She blocked me

Her: I'm giving you a chance.

Me: A chance at what?

Her: To be a piece of sh!t like every other guy.

Me: Ok, and I will give you a chance to make me cu.m like every other girl.

That is what I would have said.

If she is gonna block me, I'd rather her block me after a Mode One response, than a pansy ass simpleton response that you offered.

 

[Robert28]

Ehh, everyone has bad days. Let's not pretend like any of us haven't lashed out at someone for no real reason just because we were having a sh!tty day.

But women will hold that against you forever. If a woman does it to you, you’re supposed to accept her apology and pretend like it never happened.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Ehh, everyone has bad days. Let's not pretend like any of us haven't lashed out at someone for no real reason just because we were having a sh!tty day.

Not often I can assure you.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

It's not about finding you a match, it's about convincing you that you must spend more to find one

 

[BackInTheGame78]

But women will hold that against you forever. If a woman does it to you, you’re supposed to accept her apology and pretend like it never happened.

It's a random chick online you've never met. Why would anyone spend much time thinking about it?

 

[SW15]

OLD is depressing especially if you're average and over the age of 35, you have a better shot meeting randoms doing day and night game but who has the time and energy to do that at age 35+

So OLD it is with jaded, bitter low quality women that most likely wouldn't have giving you the time of day when they were hot in their prime

There's a lot of truth to this. I would replaced "average and over the age of 35" with "outside of the Top 10-20% and over the age of 35".

You're exactly right about the time and energy elements. Since turning 35, I have noticed less of a desire to game hard and do long approach sessions. I have done approach sessions since turning 35, but it seems like more of a drag now. I've kept my fitness consistent and my photos have rated well on Photofeeler, but not Top 10-20%. Most would think I'm around a 7.

For a man 35-early 40s, it's common to go on dates from swipe apps with women in their 30s who wouldn't have given you the time of day in their primes. Many men can feel this vibe on some of their dates. The women also resent doing this. Often times, these women don't feel "all the feelz" no matter what you do, and they will bail, creating a "one date, no sex, no second date" interaction. Yes, this is due to them feeling jaded and bitter.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It's a random chick online you've never met. Why would anyone spend much time thinking about it?

It's pointless to think about one particular woman, but In Robert's post he used the plural "women", not the singular. lolz

 

[SargeMaximus]

There's a lot of truth to this. I would replaced "average and over the age of 35" with "outside of the Top 10-20% and over the age of 35".

You're exactly right about the time and energy elements. Since turning 35, I have noticed less of a desire to game hard and do long approach sessions. I have done approach sessions since turning 35, but it seems like more of a drag now. I've kept my fitness consistent and my photos have rated well on Photofeeler, but not Top 10-20%. Most would think I'm around a 7.

For a man 35-early 40s, it's common to go on dates from swipe apps with women in their 30s who wouldn't have given you the time of day in their primes. Many men can feel this vibe on some of their dates. The women also resent doing this. Often times, these women don't feel "all the feelz" no matter what you do, and they will bail, creating a "one date, no sex, no second date" interaction. Yes, this is due to them feeling jaded and bitter.

The 43 yo who came over to my place today said she don’t got time to take things slow. Totally my outlook as well