"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WTF..getting fat?

Aru

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I'm going to make this short and sweet because I wrote a very detailed post that got mucked up in the sending and I lost it. So I'm kinda irritated. Here goes:

I Am 6'0''. I started at 220 pounds, well overweight, in January 2003.
Have spent almost the last 2 years seriously losing weight.
Lowest weight was 175 pounds in April 2004. No more gut, face well defined, look good. People that meet me for first time say I'm 'lean'. People I used to know say 'skinny'.
Started school year at 178.5 lbs. Maintained this until early October. Have been weight training to get 'ripped' since then. Have had a good diet that has become a part of my life over past 2 years.
Have an active life (also ingrained).

Anyway after weight training with capable roomate for 6 weeks or so and increasing my protein intake while keeping rest of diet same, and getting plenty of rest, I am now at 184 pounds.

While noticing muscle gains, I think I am getting fat gains too. Noticing accumulation of fat in the midsection which ticks me off because it took me 2 years to get rid of it all.

How can I make sure I gain solid muscle mass and get 'ripped' but not end up getting fat?

Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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7 Virtues

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I know of no way that you can avoid putting on fat while bulking.
 

iknowmore

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Originally posted by 7 Virtues
I know of no way that you can avoid putting on fat while bulking.
i do. It's called increaseing your calories slowly. It will produce MINIMAL fat gains.
 

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Anytime you bulk up, you will gain some fat along in the process.
 

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Originally posted by iknowmore
i do. It's called increaseing your calories slowly. It will produce MINIMAL fat gains.
Minimal fat gains are still fat gains.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hot Ice

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Originally posted by Nightwing
Anytime you bulk up, you will gain some fat along in the process.
True. Otherwise, you are not gaining muscles either, since you don't eat enough.


You shouldn't be scared of getting little fat during bulking.
It's natural and you cannot avoid it.

Losing fat while gaining muscle is almost impossible to most of us, so you have to keep cycling between bulking up and cutting.
Check DIESEL's guide for more information.

BTW. As you describe yourself lean now you wont get that much fat while bulking if you just eat low fat food with high protein and low GI carbs!. (note, after gym it's good to eat high GI carbs and minimal fat)
 

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First of, get a body composition test done to determine your fat levels.

Then, check out Diesel's cutting guide. Everytime you bulk up, you will gain fat, it's unavoidable if you wanna build muscle.
 

Fatality

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Originally posted by iknowmore
i do. It's called increaseing your calories slowly. It will produce MINIMAL fat gains.
and multiply the time it takes you to get muscular by about 10X.
 

Fatality

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Originally posted by iknowmore
oh wow, so wrong on so many levels.
Maybe not by 10X but it would defitely take alot longer.

What would I know I've only been doing this my whole life:rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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iknowmore

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Originally posted by Fatality
Maybe not by 10X but it would defitely take alot longer.

What would I know I've only been doing this my whole life:rolleyes:
im not doubting you, i've been an amateur bodybuilder for 7 years. Getting fat when bulking is a thing of the past, yes many people do that, but many people dont care about their nutrition. if you want to stay relatively lean but still pack on muscle, take it slow.
 
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