"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wtf does this get me

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Okay guys, so i'm going to be honest. I have one really great talent..... it's poetry/song writing.... I'm not trying to brag, but I really am great at this. The honest question is: What does this get me? My friends are all athletic, or musically gifted, and get girls that way, but I'm only good at writing. Doesn't my writing come off as AFC? I mean, that's how I interpret it. What do you guys think
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What does it get you? Well, when it comes to getting girls, not much, but don't feel bad because being a great writer can be beneficial in a lot of other ways.
 

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You have no idea what a great gift you have if you are really talented. I am very gifted at writing too. I can write 10 page essays in an hour and get amazing marks on them. Like you, I did the whole poetry thing for years.

I decided to continue this in an actual thread, since i thought this topic was so important: check it out here

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=152256
 

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Learn to play the guitar.
Not only is playing the acoustic guitar a good hobbie but if you really are good at song writing and poetry then this could become a real passion of yours.

Its not easy to learn so it has to be something you really want to do but it could really be something you enjoy, writing acoustic guitar songs.

Iv tryed putting some words together with some chords, it was horrible. Ill stick with playing what other people have written, but you on the other hand may have what it takes. Give it a try and dont waste a talent.

I wouldn't say it helps me get girls on the field but it always impresses the ones who come back to my place and get to know me better.
 

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I already play guitar hahahahahahaha. I'm not great at it, but I'm not horrible. i've been playing for about 4 years, and I do write songs. I just wish i had something that was beneficial. Girls don't give a damn about my AFC poetry
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jokerlsk said:
Girls don't give a damn about my AFC poetry
You damn right they dont, you'd be hard pressed to find a guy who appreciates this crap, let alone a chick.

Chicks and poetry ? Is kind of like building a mansion for your dog (btw the mansion is only a mansion to you, it's a pile of sticks to anyone else). Now dont get me wrong I'm not saying "poetry" is by any means next level stuff, strictly for the dreamers and deep thinkers, on the contrary just about anyone can pump out this drivel and claim it "good". I'd personally rather lick the back of a toothless Russian hag than sit through someones poetry.

As a matter of fact I think pursuits such as "poetry" and his less retarded cousin "philosophy" are dead ends, probably concocted by *******s and jerks to keep the betas/losers occupied while they rail his muse.

I dislike poetry almost as much as I do David Lynch movies. Mind you not as much as I do the target audience for this crap.
 

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what does this get you? This usually gets you laid. Here's the secret a lot of the songwriters I've met living here in Nashville talk about using when they were younger:

What you do is you write one really good, really pretty love song. Not some peice of AFC garbage that is just fluff lyrics you came up with as you got the melody, but some good lyric writing that you have seriously edited and re-wrote until it was great. Really pretty melody and the whole thing.

Then, you never let anyone hear the song unless it's a girl you're dating and you're ready to really impress her. You tell her that you wrote the song for her recently, and then you play it.

What makes it great is you can play the same song for dozens of women, so long as none of these girls ever make you play the song publicly.

You don't realize how many points you'll get for writing a song for a girl. Here's an example:

So a while back I'm dating this girl. She breaks up with me. The first thing I do is sit down and spend twenty minutes writing a pissed off break up song. The verses were all the ways in which she sucks, and the chorus is about how she can **** herself. I wrote it really quick, then went out with my friends and got drunk. It ended up being a pretty funny song, so I'd play it for my friends from time to time as a joke.

A few months later she invited me over and we were having a few drinks and she asked me to play her the song. Even though the song is nothing but insults to her, she still pretty much loved it. She was obviously really flattered that someone had written a song about her. It didn't even matter that the song was all about how she sucks.

Just keep in mind, though, that writing girls songs loses it's punch pretty quick if you're writing her lots of tunes. So don't make it a regular thing.
 

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dude. you are lucky as hell. get Drunk. head back to your place. tell her you will read her poety. Her pusssy will get wet, then do her. man. I would love to have that gift. Apparently all I have is patience, hard-working, and yea...tahts about it lol. The rest is just me being badass :D
 

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I use poetry. But in a way that leads her imagination. I give them as little gifts. I will share them as a way of connecting. My poetry is designed in a way that's passionate and not Chumpy. I lead the imagination by using language in a way that makes her really feel it.

You have a gift.

Don't feel bad for who you are. Just because some dude says "Poetry is for girls, men do bla bla"

If they say that then they dont know the first thing about being a man and they are merely posers. Being a man is about acting on your desires and intentions and sharing who you truly are to the world without apology.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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