"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WTF does my ex want from me?

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Adrian

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She broke my heart about 8 months ago and now she calls me "to see how I've been doing all this time". I heard from a close friend that her and her recent boyfriend are already breaking up :rolleyes: . She was asking about me to some of my stupid friends and one of them gave her my number :mad: . All I did over the phone was talk about our relationship, how ****ed up she was bieng towards me, how I forgive her and not hold any grudges against her (which is what she expected from me) and what is going on in our present lives. I figured she probably wanted me to take her back but she also said stuff during our conversation such as "Someday you'll find the right girl". WTF does this psycho ***** want from me now? 8 months ago she put me through the worst depressive moment of my life and now she's coming back to me acting as if nothing ever happened and how shes sorry for bieng cold towards me all that time.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Listen man, this b!tch threw you away thinking she could do better. She didn't see you as a boyfriend, she just saw you as trash that she didn't need in her life anymore. She moved on for the better, or so she thought.

So she found some *******, it didn't work out, and now she's experiancing some ego hurting and needs some sucker to go be her little emotional b!tch so she can get her self-esteem up.

That's what she sees you as, despite how nice she is or how much she tells you she regrets what happened. She sees you as a dependable rebound, the guy who will be there for her when other *******s use her up and throw her away. She has no respect for you, and does not love you - if she did, she wouldn't have ditched your ass and ignored you for 8 months. This girl does not care about you. Where's your pride man? Don't even talk to this b!tch, she is beneath you. She wants you to be her little rebound b!tch, who does she think she is? Remember, you are a man, you're no one's b!tch.

I tell you, if you take this b!tch back, you will break up again, and next time it will be even worse. Once she knows you'll take her back, she will do all sorts of sh!t to push your limits. Tell her you're not interested in anything she has to offer and to stop calling you. Then disappear from her life.

She didn't think you were worth her time back then, and she doesn't think so now. She just wants her self-esteem restored, and there is nothing better for that then an ex-bf who was afc. So don't play into her game.

Good luck man.
 
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Take her back??? :D ....... I wasn't planning on it. You sound like you speak from expirience man. Thanks for the advice. You honestly don't know how much you've helped me. Thanks Man.
 
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Yeah, MindoverMatter is pretty much on the ball...

She wants to know how terrible your life is now that she isn't around. Tell her how wonderful your life has been and all the cool stuff you have been up to in the last 8 months.

The only thing I would add is that it is great to catch up with the ex, then using your newly acquired DJ mentality, flirt outrageously with her and then watching her blow you. At this point you are vulnerable though, don't commit to anything... ANYTHING!!! :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yo, this **** happens to me still. And i'm talking 4-5 years later. I personally think it only happens to younger chicks. In their lives they are ****ign around etc, but when's **** isn't happening the way they want it to they call you up. Who knows perhaps they never really got over you? I have two girls that are my ex's from WAY back- 3-4 years ago! Back in my 1/2 afc days. Still calling up wanting to know whats going down in my life.

Of course i'm never going to take them back. Everyone should just know this as fact. But then unlike popular thought- i tell them very little about me. I'm friendly blah blah on the phone: often they drop the hints about catching up blah blah. But **** that. I got better things to do with my time. So at this point you can say some **** about having a drink. And let some time pass and being a busy guy you soon forget about catching up with them.

In the meantime its more than likely they are stressing about you. I've tried the "i've moved on -stay out of my life" lines etc... they aren't helpful. They **** u over in the long run. Girls like this are just some **** you have to deal with. That's the cost of making mistakes by making to many girlfriends that aren't worthy.

Decent chicks don't pull this **** on you.

On a side note, i'm not even interested in ****ing these girls ever again. Too much trouble and baggage etc. **** that.

Cheers,
f.

Excuse all the language homie- just read another post that was very 'gangsta' and playa in nature that's got up in my face. ;p
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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She was feeling guilty and used you as her emotional tampon. She feels better now and where are you? Confused...:rolleyes: You should have accepted her apology and moved on instead of carrying all this extra crap for her.
 
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