"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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wtf do i do now?

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okay so i started a thread awhile ago '2 girls 1 guy,' or some random thing like that. anyway long story short i'm now in a relationship with one of the girls, the other doesn't know yet but hopefully it won't be too much of a fuss.

Anyway what do i do now? we both know we're in a relationship and it's an exclusive one, as in we don't see anyone else (b/f, g/f. That kind of stuff) Just kind of lost as to what i do now. Aside from keep acting like an alpha male, display good value/worth etc, be a man about thing- not a jerk, what do i do now?

Btw let me clarify, i'm not really in this to get in her pants. It'd be nice but it's not some massive goal of mine. She's a nice person, i want the experience.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don`t understand.What do you mean?What do you mean,what do you do now?
 
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i've never been in a relationship, what happens now?
 
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What happens now?You stay in the relationship until you want out or she wants out.I don`t know,it seem simple to me.
 
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you just do the relationship thing whilst leading and not letting things get boring. whether you keep seeing other people is up to you of course.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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okay, not get boring, lead it. Sound simple enough, i guess. What are some good things to not let it get boring?
 
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int3l said:
okay, not get boring, lead it. Sound simple enough, i guess. What are some good things to not let it get boring?
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Just go out with her.. have fun.. be intimate.. have sex.. enjoy life.. she may become that someone special.. who knows. just be yourself cuz you've already won her over.. GAMING ON HER should be OFF by now.
 
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int3l said:
okay, not get boring, lead it. Sound simple enough, i guess. What are some good things to not let it get boring?
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Do you have male friends? How do you hang out with them weekend after weekend for years without it being boring? Just be yourself and make sure both of you are having fun when you're together. Don't over-analyze it like you're doing.
 
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Ironic, since you're name is Igetit ;)
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it just feels like i still need to game her, we're in a relationship but doing small things like holding hands w/e still feels somewhat awkward. Hmmm, either way just be myself at this point and be the alpha male seems to be the message i'm getting from you guys.
 
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another thing, who pays? so far i've just been paying for most of the things but i don't want her to get the idea that she can freeload.
 
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