"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wtf do i do now?

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okay so i started a thread awhile ago '2 girls 1 guy,' or some random thing like that. anyway long story short i'm now in a relationship with one of the girls, the other doesn't know yet but hopefully it won't be too much of a fuss.

Anyway what do i do now? we both know we're in a relationship and it's an exclusive one, as in we don't see anyone else (b/f, g/f. That kind of stuff) Just kind of lost as to what i do now. Aside from keep acting like an alpha male, display good value/worth etc, be a man about thing- not a jerk, what do i do now?

Btw let me clarify, i'm not really in this to get in her pants. It'd be nice but it's not some massive goal of mine. She's a nice person, i want the experience.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don`t understand.What do you mean?What do you mean,what do you do now?
 
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i've never been in a relationship, what happens now?
 
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What happens now?You stay in the relationship until you want out or she wants out.I don`t know,it seem simple to me.
 
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you just do the relationship thing whilst leading and not letting things get boring. whether you keep seeing other people is up to you of course.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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okay, not get boring, lead it. Sound simple enough, i guess. What are some good things to not let it get boring?
 
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int3l said:
okay, not get boring, lead it. Sound simple enough, i guess. What are some good things to not let it get boring?
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Just go out with her.. have fun.. be intimate.. have sex.. enjoy life.. she may become that someone special.. who knows. just be yourself cuz you've already won her over.. GAMING ON HER should be OFF by now.
 
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int3l said:
okay, not get boring, lead it. Sound simple enough, i guess. What are some good things to not let it get boring?
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Do you have male friends? How do you hang out with them weekend after weekend for years without it being boring? Just be yourself and make sure both of you are having fun when you're together. Don't over-analyze it like you're doing.
 
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Ironic, since you're name is Igetit ;)
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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it just feels like i still need to game her, we're in a relationship but doing small things like holding hands w/e still feels somewhat awkward. Hmmm, either way just be myself at this point and be the alpha male seems to be the message i'm getting from you guys.
 
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another thing, who pays? so far i've just been paying for most of the things but i don't want her to get the idea that she can freeload.
 
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