"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wtf do i do now?

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okay so i started a thread awhile ago '2 girls 1 guy,' or some random thing like that. anyway long story short i'm now in a relationship with one of the girls, the other doesn't know yet but hopefully it won't be too much of a fuss.

Anyway what do i do now? we both know we're in a relationship and it's an exclusive one, as in we don't see anyone else (b/f, g/f. That kind of stuff) Just kind of lost as to what i do now. Aside from keep acting like an alpha male, display good value/worth etc, be a man about thing- not a jerk, what do i do now?

Btw let me clarify, i'm not really in this to get in her pants. It'd be nice but it's not some massive goal of mine. She's a nice person, i want the experience.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don`t understand.What do you mean?What do you mean,what do you do now?
 
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i've never been in a relationship, what happens now?
 
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What happens now?You stay in the relationship until you want out or she wants out.I don`t know,it seem simple to me.
 
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you just do the relationship thing whilst leading and not letting things get boring. whether you keep seeing other people is up to you of course.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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okay, not get boring, lead it. Sound simple enough, i guess. What are some good things to not let it get boring?
 
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int3l said:
okay, not get boring, lead it. Sound simple enough, i guess. What are some good things to not let it get boring?
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Just go out with her.. have fun.. be intimate.. have sex.. enjoy life.. she may become that someone special.. who knows. just be yourself cuz you've already won her over.. GAMING ON HER should be OFF by now.
 
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int3l said:
okay, not get boring, lead it. Sound simple enough, i guess. What are some good things to not let it get boring?
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Do you have male friends? How do you hang out with them weekend after weekend for years without it being boring? Just be yourself and make sure both of you are having fun when you're together. Don't over-analyze it like you're doing.
 
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Ironic, since you're name is Igetit ;)
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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it just feels like i still need to game her, we're in a relationship but doing small things like holding hands w/e still feels somewhat awkward. Hmmm, either way just be myself at this point and be the alpha male seems to be the message i'm getting from you guys.
 
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another thing, who pays? so far i've just been paying for most of the things but i don't want her to get the idea that she can freeload.
 
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