AlexTheGreat
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Would it be morally wrong to date a girl even tho I'm not interested in her ? I mean, just hang out to the theatres or whatever, and practice some DJ skills on her ?
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Wrong if you're not interested ?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MetalFortress
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Ignore the guy above. Even if it was not, it's a pointless thing to do, cuz you don't get experience with a girl you ARE attracted to. So you can put "tha moovz" on some random chick, then when one you like comes along, bam, back to square one? Work on attractive girls, and work on your mindset as well as "the moves"Originally posted by AlexTheGreat
Would it be morally wrong to date a girl even tho I'm not interested in her ? I mean, just hang out to the theatres or whatever, and practice some DJ skills on her ?
DJ Alejandro
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why should it be? i do it all the time. as long as you dont give her too much hope or mean to just lead her on, its ok.
and besides, you have girl friends. practice the ****y and funny on them. especially since most of these girls may or may not have put you in the friend zone already, practicing on them and possibly getting them interested would be great practice.
and besides, you have girl friends. practice the ****y and funny on them. especially since most of these girls may or may not have put you in the friend zone already, practicing on them and possibly getting them interested would be great practice.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Re: Re: Wrong if you're not interested ?
If he is not attracted to her, it does not make her not attractive. She could just not be smart enough for him. IMOHO the more practice the better and if you want to fool around with her, then do so.
If you are interested in her as a friend then you might as well hang out and date, but if it is purely to practice your skills, then i would not as why would i want to spend time with some girl who i do not have any kind of interest in.
Roll with the punches
Alright Alex, ill repeat, do what you want to do, not what you think others think you should not be doing.Originally posted by MetalFortress
Ignore the guy above. Even if it was not, it's a pointless thing to do, cuz you don't get experience with a girl you ARE attracted to. So you can put "tha moovz" on some random chick, then when one you like comes along, bam, back to square one? Work on attractive girls, and work on your mindset as well as "the moves"
If he is not attracted to her, it does not make her not attractive. She could just not be smart enough for him. IMOHO the more practice the better and if you want to fool around with her, then do so.
If you are interested in her as a friend then you might as well hang out and date, but if it is purely to practice your skills, then i would not as why would i want to spend time with some girl who i do not have any kind of interest in.
Roll with the punches
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Originally posted by AlexTheGreat
Would it be morally wrong to date a girl even tho I'm not interested in her ?
We can't ****ing decide that for you... Would it be morally wrong? You have your own morals, I have my own.
What kind of question is that?
I mean, just hang out to the theatres or whatever, and practice some DJ skills on her?
Do what you want... I wouldn't date a girl I didn't want to date... not for moral reasons: but because she might try to kiss me or something.... ew, ugly tongue.
It wouldn't do any harm at all just to hang out with her and sure, go ahead and put some of your DJ skills to use, just don't go too far. I don't like it when girls lead me on and I'm pretty sure they don't either. But, if you're already in the "friends" zone with her, it really doesn't matter. I'm sure my morals are a lot different than yours so it's all up to you
Make your own decision, man. We can't do it all for you.
What do you think?
Personally, I wouldn't do it. It doesn't even count as 'experience', because when a girl comes along that you really, truly DO like - you won't know how to handle it, you'll only know how to handle it when you've got nothing to lose because you don't feel anything towards the broad.
Like was mentioned: Have you ever been led on by a woman? Did you like how it felt?
What do you think?
Personally, I wouldn't do it. It doesn't even count as 'experience', because when a girl comes along that you really, truly DO like - you won't know how to handle it, you'll only know how to handle it when you've got nothing to lose because you don't feel anything towards the broad.
Like was mentioned: Have you ever been led on by a woman? Did you like how it felt?