"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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WOW wtf is up with me

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i just called this girl up to meet at the mall.
i couldn't get my words out at all.
i usually don't stutter at all on the phone, but with this girl, i just can't think straight.

wow i feel pathetic
she said goodbye first, so i guess that's a bad sign.

what is up with this girl?
i'm never like this.

i need to kick her down a notch in my mind.
i thought about going for a run before i meet her at the mall to get into a more confident state of mind.

can anyone help?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wut are you talking about?
i'm talking about how I FELT and how I shouldn't be feeling this way.
 
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Likely just put her on a pedestal, do what you can to knock her off of it, and act like she's any other chick. Without changing what you'll say, necessarily, pretend you're talking to another female friend, or compare/contrast her to other girls to bring her off of the pedestal.
 
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best advice i can give is to go into the phone call with a gameplan.. have a goal for the phone call... and dont let her steer u off ur path.. if she goes off into her own little world follow her until a slight pause maybe comment a little bit then get right back into ur mission.

also think while ur talking.. sometimes i catch myself not even thinking when im on the phone.. and i can end up saying some stupid boring sh!t lol

good luck bro
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Again.

Rule #1:

NEVER care what she or anybody else thinks.
 
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