"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WOW wtf is up with me

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i just called this girl up to meet at the mall.
i couldn't get my words out at all.
i usually don't stutter at all on the phone, but with this girl, i just can't think straight.

wow i feel pathetic
she said goodbye first, so i guess that's a bad sign.

what is up with this girl?
i'm never like this.

i need to kick her down a notch in my mind.
i thought about going for a run before i meet her at the mall to get into a more confident state of mind.

can anyone help?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wut are you talking about?
i'm talking about how I FELT and how I shouldn't be feeling this way.
 
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Likely just put her on a pedestal, do what you can to knock her off of it, and act like she's any other chick. Without changing what you'll say, necessarily, pretend you're talking to another female friend, or compare/contrast her to other girls to bring her off of the pedestal.
 
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best advice i can give is to go into the phone call with a gameplan.. have a goal for the phone call... and dont let her steer u off ur path.. if she goes off into her own little world follow her until a slight pause maybe comment a little bit then get right back into ur mission.

also think while ur talking.. sometimes i catch myself not even thinking when im on the phone.. and i can end up saying some stupid boring sh!t lol

good luck bro
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Again.

Rule #1:

NEVER care what she or anybody else thinks.
 
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