"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WOW wtf is up with me

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i just called this girl up to meet at the mall.
i couldn't get my words out at all.
i usually don't stutter at all on the phone, but with this girl, i just can't think straight.

wow i feel pathetic
she said goodbye first, so i guess that's a bad sign.

what is up with this girl?
i'm never like this.

i need to kick her down a notch in my mind.
i thought about going for a run before i meet her at the mall to get into a more confident state of mind.

can anyone help?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wut are you talking about?
i'm talking about how I FELT and how I shouldn't be feeling this way.
 
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Likely just put her on a pedestal, do what you can to knock her off of it, and act like she's any other chick. Without changing what you'll say, necessarily, pretend you're talking to another female friend, or compare/contrast her to other girls to bring her off of the pedestal.
 
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best advice i can give is to go into the phone call with a gameplan.. have a goal for the phone call... and dont let her steer u off ur path.. if she goes off into her own little world follow her until a slight pause maybe comment a little bit then get right back into ur mission.

also think while ur talking.. sometimes i catch myself not even thinking when im on the phone.. and i can end up saying some stupid boring sh!t lol

good luck bro
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Again.

Rule #1:

NEVER care what she or anybody else thinks.
 
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