“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Seriously... To be on the other side of the KBJs.
I'm acctually nervous to call this chick, to ask her out.
It's so weird :DDD You KBJs (such as myself sometimes) live it easy. You guys just give advice which is 100% textbook correct but you never put yourself in risk of getting hurt or rejected. That's why you'll never become better. It's easy to write and lecture but actually doing feels goddamn nervrecking.

So now I'm going to be the one asking for advice which I basically should already know but since I've not done it for a looong looong time and only talked about it here on SS I'll ask it anyways.

I'm about to call this chick who's 5 years older than me. I've got NO idea if she's intrested but we'll see, only if I get her out on a date first.
I know that I should "command her" to come out and just tell her to be where and when at the location. It's just that if she rejects me and doesn't give a counteroffer then what should I say? I know I shouldn't be angry nor will I. I'm just wondering if I should be like: Okay, I'll call you another day. Is that okay?

So yeah there you go.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm not sure exactly what you're really asking.

When did you meet her? How much have you talked with her (in person)? If you want to hang out with her just ask her to hang out. There's no advanced method here.
 
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Yeah, you shouldn't over-complicate things. Just simply ask her if she wants to hang out.
 
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Nervousness isn't always a bad thing. And being nervous, in my mind, is often a good sign. It means I'm excited about something, and I'm working towards a desirable outcome.

There are definitely times when nervousness can paralyze. But a big part of showing mental strength, I believe, is not allowing it to.

GL man. Stay positive and inviting, why wouldn't she enjoy your presence?
 
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Assume she is interested. Have a reasonably specific plan and suggest she comes along. If she declines and doesn't give a counter offer then don't say "Ok, I'll call you another time" or anything like that. You just say "Ok, bye" and NEXT her instantly.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PlaysToWin said:
Assume she is interested. Have a reasonably specific plan and suggest she comes along. If she declines and doesn't give a counter offer then don't say "Ok, I'll call you another time" or anything like that. You just say "Ok, bye" and NEXT her instantly.
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"Ok bye" is good :) Simple and precise.

Although I wont give up that easily. I'll give her one more shot if she declines the first one.

I was JUST going to call her and guess what happened? She started to write to me on Facebook chat. Which I take as a good sign. She actually added me a few days ago. I think the chat went okay but then she had to go play footsal (soccer indoors the size of a icehockey court) which I know for 100% is true so she didn't ditch the convo. I'll call her tomorrow to ask her out on wednesday to play pool. Let's see how the cookie crumbles with this chick :)

I'd say she's a 8 but her personality makes her a 9-10 in my opinion. She's possibly like this because she's 25 which makes her a bit more mature than my aged chicks :) Nice!
 
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