She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She definitely looks like she hit "The Wall" to me..her hair is all gray. The photo is probably doctored. Celebrities like Hurley and Austin can afford plastic surgery. It's not natural. Look at the neck always.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Eew...not a chance. There are plenty of older women that I would still get hard for if I saw them naked. There are ZERO fat women I would get hard for if I saw them naked. In fact, I'd probably leave the room so I didn't have to look at them since it disgusts me.
yes. infertility renders them futile
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Depends. I have fvcked some fat women in my life and can shamelessly say I usually enjoyed sex with them as much or even more than slimmer women. Granted, the fat women I like are built like Jill Scott rather than Lizzo.
Not for me, lessens the chance they can get pregnant. And why the fvck do you care about whether they are fertile or not? Unless you are planning on marrying a land whale and if that's the case, well, all I can say is thanks...competition taking itself out the door.
nothing to do with land whales. fertility is the epitome of feminity
