"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow! The slutiness of women suprises me

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The Decay of Meaning

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I got to know a girl at a bar and then we made out. She told me she was actually engaged but planned to leave him in January, and she couldn't do it sooner because she will get an apartment in January.

After exchanging numbers and making out for like 15 minutes, I left.

After a minute she was making out with a 40 year old guy who was halfway bald. She was 29 or something herself, I am 21 years old and nature has blessed me with a handsome face.

So she was engaged, made out with me. After one minute she was making out with a guy who was just average.

What the ****?

I have to admit I was a bit irritated she would switch lips that easy, so I made out with another girl 10 minutes later, so I am almost as slutty as her, but still. The sluttiness of mankind surprises me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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trent81

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Congrats on the oral herpes! And possible swine flu!
 
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Zoltan_The_Bold

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san jose where is that thread with that quote from amoka in it because it sounds fvcking hilarious?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cinamon

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It was just kissing and it's the run up to Xmas and new years. Do you guys not set challenges like who can kiss the most number of people before midnight? A bit of festive fun. No harm done.
 
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shaunuk

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How could this be new to anyone? This is common knowledge - a kiss in a nightclub/bar means almost nothing to both men and women. This ain't the High School forum is it?
 
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2crudedudes

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Sounds like the only reason you had a chance WAS because she's a slut.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sandow

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Yup girls are sluts. You'll get over it one day.
 
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Apparently she wasn't satisfied with her current relationship and was looking elsewhere for that satisfaction. If she did that, so what, wash your mouth and move on. Heck you just made out with a chic and that is probably all she wanted to do in the first place. She talked about leaving him, ya right, she probably will stay with him and cheat. All talk, no action.
 
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