"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow, so I hooked up with girl who plays Call of Duty 4 in college

Brighty

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Seriously, I've only been here a week and I love college. I just got finished hooking up with this girl who not only likes Boondock Saints but plays Soul Calibur 4 and Call of Duty 4 frequently. I'm not going to start a relationship with her or anything, but I just thought that was wicked cool, although like every guy on her floor is pissed off at me because I just ruined their chances with her. If that came off ****y, its just that I've been shoved aside for so long during high school and disregarded and now I come of the gates swinging in college and its a great thing to experience.

Here are some pictures for you guys. Sorry if this seems like a pointless thread, its 4am here and I'm drunk and tired and just wanted somewhere to document my success because I've been frequenting this place since I was a sophomore in high school.

http://img269.imageshack.us/img269/1551/45351704.jpg

http://img269.imageshack.us/img269/7691/97874972.jpg (shes on the right)


Only problem is that she is a biter,
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WhitePimp

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Nothing wrong with bragging a bit, she's gorgeous man! Keep it up!! :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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909pua

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ya, is she good at call of duty 4? i play Call of Duty World at War, if anybody wants to get down, feel free to contact me. I have an xfire account.

and ya man, she's hot.
 

Brighty

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Haha thanks for the support guys, sorry if this came across as just straight up bragging, I was gone when I made this post last night, so yeah haha. But thanks guys.

BongDuy said:
do tell how you met her and how you hooked up. haha i want to know more :p

Uh, well we were all outside hanging out a few days ago and I just introduced myself to her and her circle of friends (its our first week in college and we're still getting to know people) and she has a ton of guys wanting to get with her and I guess through using negging and push/pulling I was the one that she went home with. Funny thing is though, my roommates were in my dorm so we went to the lounge area at like 3am and just started making out and our RA came in on us, but he just nodded and said "my bad" and walked away. He's a good guy. It was sooo hot, I was sitting on a couch and she was ontop of me kissing me along the neck, grinding away at my ****. I had both my hands on her ass and I'd squeeze her ass and she'd gasp and tighten her grip on the back of my head every time I did it. She has great tits too, we almost got caught several times and we had to jump off of each other half a dozen times when we heard people coming.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ice882

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She's easily an 8. Good job man.
 

base2ball2boy2

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I think the appropriate comment on this situation is:
"You lucky b8stard."
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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Ahh, the college days...rock n roll hoochie coo...

It must be time to start going to college bars again!
 
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