"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wow, never had this happen before

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haha, check this out

HB (11:53:40 PM): this guy on the phone won't shut up.

HB (11:53:44 PM): ...blahblahblah.

HB (11:53:50 PM): s h u t u p p l e a s e

Arcbauser (11:53:51 PM): haha

Arcbauser (11:54:07 PM): thats what you get for giving your number out

HB(11:54:13 PM): let's date.

Arcbauser (11:54:58 PM): why, so you can tell him you have a boyfriend?

HB (11:55:29 PM): no.

HB (11:55:35 PM): 'cause i like you. hahahha.

thats the first time i've ever had a chick ask me to date her, wow, i know i've improved, but not that much!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Give us a little more background on this.

It sounds like she's psycho, but with out more details its hard to tell.
 
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this is all you have had? nothing happened before?
 
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rocky_mtn said:
Give us a little more background on this.

It sounds like she's psycho, but with out more details its hard to tell.
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ha ha, no, shes a cool chick, we've been talking for a few weeks, i've been using push/pull, c&f, her IL is through the roof! shes always dropping hints on me (yes, i get them but dont respond) basically this is my first myspace pick up, thanks skip, even though you are not around anymore
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ha ha, no, shes a cool chick, we've been talking for a few weeks, i've been using push/pull, c&f, her IL is through the roof! shes always dropping hints on me (yes, i get them but dont respond) basically this is my first myspace pick up, thanks skip, even though you are not around anymore
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and what's the problem??

don't spend too much $ on her or let her get into your head or turn you into a beotch.

People here are always asking if she might be interested, she told you she is, so go to the next step if thats what you want.
 
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rocky_mtn said:
and what's the problem??

don't spend too much $ on her or let her get into your head or turn you into a beotch.

People here are always asking if she might be interested, she told you she is, so go to the next step if thats what you want.
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of course not. i know she is interested, i've known for a while now, i was just stating that i have never had a chick come out so blatently and say it
 
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My experience with chicks asking you out, is that they are pyscho's or have mental disorders.. so test this girl, and decide if you want to spend your time with her. Don't let it go too far..

But what the hell i know, i could be wrong.
 
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well, turns out you guys were right, we were talking earlier tonight and she pulls this one on me

"you know about my anxiety problem, right?"

WTF!!!!! thats okay tho, we'll see where this goes, could be good, could be bad, good thing she lives about an hour away
 
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