"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wow, never had this happen before

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haha, check this out

HB (11:53:40 PM): this guy on the phone won't shut up.

HB (11:53:44 PM): ...blahblahblah.

HB (11:53:50 PM): s h u t u p p l e a s e

Arcbauser (11:53:51 PM): haha

Arcbauser (11:54:07 PM): thats what you get for giving your number out

HB(11:54:13 PM): let's date.

Arcbauser (11:54:58 PM): why, so you can tell him you have a boyfriend?

HB (11:55:29 PM): no.

HB (11:55:35 PM): 'cause i like you. hahahha.

thats the first time i've ever had a chick ask me to date her, wow, i know i've improved, but not that much!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Give us a little more background on this.

It sounds like she's psycho, but with out more details its hard to tell.
 

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this is all you have had? nothing happened before?
 

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rocky_mtn said:
Give us a little more background on this.

It sounds like she's psycho, but with out more details its hard to tell.
ha ha, no, shes a cool chick, we've been talking for a few weeks, i've been using push/pull, c&f, her IL is through the roof! shes always dropping hints on me (yes, i get them but dont respond) basically this is my first myspace pick up, thanks skip, even though you are not around anymore
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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brenbaus said:
ha ha, no, shes a cool chick, we've been talking for a few weeks, i've been using push/pull, c&f, her IL is through the roof! shes always dropping hints on me (yes, i get them but dont respond) basically this is my first myspace pick up, thanks skip, even though you are not around anymore

and what's the problem??

don't spend too much $ on her or let her get into your head or turn you into a beotch.

People here are always asking if she might be interested, she told you she is, so go to the next step if thats what you want.
 

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rocky_mtn said:
and what's the problem??

don't spend too much $ on her or let her get into your head or turn you into a beotch.

People here are always asking if she might be interested, she told you she is, so go to the next step if thats what you want.
of course not. i know she is interested, i've known for a while now, i was just stating that i have never had a chick come out so blatently and say it
 

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My experience with chicks asking you out, is that they are pyscho's or have mental disorders.. so test this girl, and decide if you want to spend your time with her. Don't let it go too far..

But what the hell i know, i could be wrong.
 

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well, turns out you guys were right, we were talking earlier tonight and she pulls this one on me

"you know about my anxiety problem, right?"

WTF!!!!! thats okay tho, we'll see where this goes, could be good, could be bad, good thing she lives about an hour away
 
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