"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wow, never had this happen before

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haha, check this out

HB (11:53:40 PM): this guy on the phone won't shut up.

HB (11:53:44 PM): ...blahblahblah.

HB (11:53:50 PM): s h u t u p p l e a s e

Arcbauser (11:53:51 PM): haha

Arcbauser (11:54:07 PM): thats what you get for giving your number out

HB(11:54:13 PM): let's date.

Arcbauser (11:54:58 PM): why, so you can tell him you have a boyfriend?

HB (11:55:29 PM): no.

HB (11:55:35 PM): 'cause i like you. hahahha.

thats the first time i've ever had a chick ask me to date her, wow, i know i've improved, but not that much!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Give us a little more background on this.

It sounds like she's psycho, but with out more details its hard to tell.
 

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this is all you have had? nothing happened before?
 

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rocky_mtn said:
Give us a little more background on this.

It sounds like she's psycho, but with out more details its hard to tell.
ha ha, no, shes a cool chick, we've been talking for a few weeks, i've been using push/pull, c&f, her IL is through the roof! shes always dropping hints on me (yes, i get them but dont respond) basically this is my first myspace pick up, thanks skip, even though you are not around anymore
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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brenbaus said:
ha ha, no, shes a cool chick, we've been talking for a few weeks, i've been using push/pull, c&f, her IL is through the roof! shes always dropping hints on me (yes, i get them but dont respond) basically this is my first myspace pick up, thanks skip, even though you are not around anymore

and what's the problem??

don't spend too much $ on her or let her get into your head or turn you into a beotch.

People here are always asking if she might be interested, she told you she is, so go to the next step if thats what you want.
 

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rocky_mtn said:
and what's the problem??

don't spend too much $ on her or let her get into your head or turn you into a beotch.

People here are always asking if she might be interested, she told you she is, so go to the next step if thats what you want.
of course not. i know she is interested, i've known for a while now, i was just stating that i have never had a chick come out so blatently and say it
 

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My experience with chicks asking you out, is that they are pyscho's or have mental disorders.. so test this girl, and decide if you want to spend your time with her. Don't let it go too far..

But what the hell i know, i could be wrong.
 

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well, turns out you guys were right, we were talking earlier tonight and she pulls this one on me

"you know about my anxiety problem, right?"

WTF!!!!! thats okay tho, we'll see where this goes, could be good, could be bad, good thing she lives about an hour away
 
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