"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wow. Just... wow.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_uRIMUBnvw

"Based on the "Manifesto for Conscious Men," a collectively-written document from a number of men who feel that a new definition of masculinity can help redress the imbalances of patriarchy and welcome a new era of loving appreciation between men and women. A group of these men speak from the heart and offer a collective apology, on behalf of their gender, for past abuses of men against women."

Discuss. I can't even process my reaction right now. My brain broke.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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loveshogun said:
I can't. I just ate and I literally felt sick to my stomach trying to watch that. *barf* I took about 20 seconds and had to close the window. Is there an executive summary?
 

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Assuming women are in peril, is this what they really need? Is it even something they want?

I think these guys have a serious case of "It will make me feel better about myself to do this, so it must be right."

Basically, the same kind of thinking that leads a guy into thinking that "I like her, so there MUST be a way to make her like me."

Which, to me, is the epitome of underhanded back dealing and a breakdown of personal integrity on a grave scale. The worst kinds of selfish people are the ones who don't realize how selfish they are.

This kind of video is nothing new to me. It's just the audacity and boldness of making such a sweeping statement is so uncharacteristic of apologists and those lacking spines that my brain literally farted right out of my skull when I heard the first five sentences.
 

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loveshogun said:
A group of these men speak from the heart and offer a collective apology, on behalf of their gender, for past abuses of men against women.
Wait. Isn't it "prejudice" to think there are some general traits for groups that make them groups? This line here goes even further. It actually says there is guilt that passes from one individual in the group to another, even when he hasn't even done anything. Even when the first individual was born and lived long ago, I still carry the guilt for whatever he did.

Is it the same for women? In that case every person in the world should get the death penalty.

And another thing: why aren't we ever allowed to say anything about the good things men do? Of course men commit more crimes than women. Men do EVERYTHING more than women. Women are average in every measurable mental field, like IQ, linguistic ability, mathematical ability, and so on. Men are more spread up and down the scale. That means there are more men who are idiots, but also more men who are geniuses. That means the best writers, doctors, engineers, musicians, inventors, managers and leaders will always be mostly men.

The species does what serves its survival. If a tribe or people hadn't done so, it would have lost out in the competition to those who did. If men took the high positions there was evolutionary sense in doing so.

That doesn't mean that deserving women haven't been allowed up there. Maybe not all the deserving ones - the instinct that makes us recognize men as the best leaders could shut out some worthy women, the application of instinct isn't always perfect. But it happens. Cleopatra, Boudica, Victoria, Elizabeth. Yes, during the "past abuses of men by women," men named the most successful era in the most successful empire the Victorian Era. They worshipped a female leader, Queen Victoria.

And before that a nation followed Joan of Arc to victory in Europe's longest war.

If they didn't put more female generals in place in that war, it wasn't because of "sexism." They would have done it if it had helped them win. They didn't follow more female leaders, because Joan of Arc was an exception that they acknowledged, but aside from her men made the best generals.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Okay, I forced myself to watch it and I gotta say, what a fucking joke!

1. New Age-y shit
2. Speaking with a pseudo-soothing voice
3. Lens flare here and there
4. ????
5. PROFIT!

Classical Nice Guy: "Oh, I'm so sorry for everything. I'm gonna worship you like a goddess. Can we fuck now?"

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