"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow... I'm here again :s

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After what must be years since I last posted I return...

Just got out of a 4 year "relationship".. And now things seem kind of, well... Odd and strange

Where to go from now, who knows...

Either way, it's time to come back and join in with you guys!

Nice to meet you all, and a big hello to anyone who is still around from the old days.

Now what on earth does my signature say on here... :eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Welcome back. It has been, what, a year since you were here? Maybe you can find G, Mellow Mel, and maybe Krynnster and drag them back here too! :D
 
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Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer

Where to go from now, who knows...
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COLD APPROACH. Approach at least once a day, preferably 5-10. If you do this you'll be better than probably anyone you know in less than a year.

oops, forgot to say: Welcome back.
 
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Hello old fellow! You do not know me since I'm new around here, but I know you from your old posts! :)

Welcome back. Let's get on track again for more DJing! :)
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Welcome back. It has been, what, a year since you were here? Maybe you can find G, Mellow Mel, and maybe Krynnster and drag them back here too! :D
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Hehehe!

Well I do have "A turtle name adrian"s email address somewhere... Perhaps some of the others too...

It would be nice to hear from them again, I must admit :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer
Hehehe!

Well I do have "A turtle name adrian"s email address somewhere... Perhaps some of the others too...

It would be nice to hear from them again, I must admit :D
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Wow dude. I would love to see you and the other guys from the old era posting some of your experiencies with the DJ thing.

That would be really nice! :D
 
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Originally posted by djbr
Wow dude. I would love to see you and the other guys from the old era posting some of your experiencies with the DJ thing.
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Hey, I have very little in experience these days, so you guys should be showing me! :p

Well, there is only one way to begin, and that is to get up and do it :D
 
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Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer
Hey, I have very little in experience these days, so you guys should be showing me! :p

Well, there is only one way to begin, and that is to get up and do it :D
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That's for sure. :D

Don't you have no feedback about your last relationship?

Writing is good, you know... :D
 
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