"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow... I'm here again :s

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After what must be years since I last posted I return...

Just got out of a 4 year "relationship".. And now things seem kind of, well... Odd and strange

Where to go from now, who knows...

Either way, it's time to come back and join in with you guys!

Nice to meet you all, and a big hello to anyone who is still around from the old days.

Now what on earth does my signature say on here... :eek:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Welcome back. It has been, what, a year since you were here? Maybe you can find G, Mellow Mel, and maybe Krynnster and drag them back here too! :D
 
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Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer

Where to go from now, who knows...
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COLD APPROACH. Approach at least once a day, preferably 5-10. If you do this you'll be better than probably anyone you know in less than a year.

oops, forgot to say: Welcome back.
 
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Hello old fellow! You do not know me since I'm new around here, but I know you from your old posts! :)

Welcome back. Let's get on track again for more DJing! :)
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Welcome back. It has been, what, a year since you were here? Maybe you can find G, Mellow Mel, and maybe Krynnster and drag them back here too! :D
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Hehehe!

Well I do have "A turtle name adrian"s email address somewhere... Perhaps some of the others too...

It would be nice to hear from them again, I must admit :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer
Hehehe!

Well I do have "A turtle name adrian"s email address somewhere... Perhaps some of the others too...

It would be nice to hear from them again, I must admit :D
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Wow dude. I would love to see you and the other guys from the old era posting some of your experiencies with the DJ thing.

That would be really nice! :D
 
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Originally posted by djbr
Wow dude. I would love to see you and the other guys from the old era posting some of your experiencies with the DJ thing.
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Hey, I have very little in experience these days, so you guys should be showing me! :p

Well, there is only one way to begin, and that is to get up and do it :D
 
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Originally posted by Hidden-Danjer
Hey, I have very little in experience these days, so you guys should be showing me! :p

Well, there is only one way to begin, and that is to get up and do it :D
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That's for sure. :D

Don't you have no feedback about your last relationship?

Writing is good, you know... :D
 
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