MatureDJ
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well, I wasn't going looking for men I could mogCorrection: The one "negro" would be cucking these dudes' wives and daughters.
Seriously tho, how much time do you have on your hands to be judging yourself against the height of men on a ship like 300 years ago?
Wow, this chick has had an incredibly horrific experience, and she thinks that the absolute worst part of it was being forced to marry a short man.![]()
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I remember once visiting the neighborhood that A-Dam is most famous for, and there was a chick that didn't want to accept me as a client for one stayShe had to choose between prostitution ('entertaining' guests in a bar) and marriage to an ugly man. I think she chose the lesser of two evils.![]()
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
A real useful job produces enought wealth to support those who perform it and their families as long as there are no parasites in the middle (gov especially).The average height on that list is really interesting, but I'm more shocked at the professions.
Family sizes were 2-4x bigger back then. Imagine being able to support that by just making rope during the day. That sounds insane in 2024.
If people only did useful work everyone could have their needs met (supporting a family of 4 or whatever the case may be) while working only half of what they do now.A real useful job produces enought wealth to support those who perform it and their families as long as there are no parasites in the middle (gov especially).
If there werent parasites wheter public actors, welfare leechers or "middle men" even nowadays a plumber could easily support a family of 4.
Interesting theory but likely false. Fun fact: Europeans living in the early Middle Ages (i.e. about 1,000 years ago) were nearly as tall as modern humans. Then, for several hundred years, the average height of Europeans was actually in decline. The lowest point was the 1700's - exactly when those French settlers described in the article came to North America. Afterwards, average height started going up again. The reason for this? Changes in nutrition. It also explains why native Americans were taller than European settlers in the colonial era. The natives had more protein in their diet.This fits in with my theory that tall men have become lopsidedly more prolific at reproduction, as Western society has allowed women sexual choice.![]()
Do you have any study for that? it makes sense the protein talk but not in that time.Interesting theory but likely false. Fun fact: Europeans living in the early Middle Ages (i.e. about 1,000 years ago) were nearly as tall as modern humans. Then, for several hundred years, the average height of Europeans was actually in decline. The lowest point was the 1700's - exactly when those French settlers described in the article came to North America. Afterwards, average height started going up again. The reason for this? Changes in nutrition. It also explains why native Americans were taller than European settlers in the colonial era. The natives had more protein in their diet.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do you have any study for that? it makes sense the protein talk but not in that time.
The early mid age was the 5th century right after the collapse of the west roman empire not 1000 yrs ago.
He talks about climate changes within a certain time frame.![]()
Men From Early Middle Ages Were Nearly As Tall As Modern People
Northern European men living during the early Middle Ages were nearly as tall as their modern-day American descendants, a finding that defies conventional wisdom about progress in living standards during the last millennium.www.sciencedaily.com
They are talking about the period between 9th and 11th century AD, which straddles both early and high Middle Ages, but that's not the point.
I just hired a plumber. These days, they aren't poor!A real useful job produces enought wealth to support those who perform it and their families as long as there are no parasites in the middle (gov especially).
If there werent parasites wheter public actors, welfare leechers or "middle men" even nowadays a plumber could easily support a family of 4.
Correct. The year 1124 is considered "High Middle Ages". Historians basically consider the High Middle Ages to be the years of the (numbered) Crusades, which was the overwhelming meme of that era.Do you have any study for that? it makes sense the protein talk but not in that time.
The early mid age was the 5th century right after the collapse of the west roman empire not 1000 yrs ago.
The Alpha Gaul got mogged in that.Ok, I see why this paper was published now. Same reason as the article on marriage stats discussed in this video. It's a "careerist" study.
It's like a Roman warlord needing a prophecy that suggests victory in Gaul is in Rome's future. Lo and behold, a short while later one of the most respected oracles looks into the tea leaves and what does she see? Roman soldiers celebrating a new annexation.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hi MDJ,I just hired a plumber. These days, they aren't poor!