"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wow.......I got played.........

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My last post, i talked about how this girl would not stop talking calling me, and was like obsesed with me. It was all cool bc i thought she was a cool chick and wanted to take her out, whatver.

Then on sunday i notice she is acting kind of weird. No biggy. Then today i find out she now has a boyfriend. Some guy she also just met....wtf is this ****?

Honestly, im so confused. I mean, this girl calls me non-stop and flirts with me, then gets a bf in less than a week? wtf is going on here?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah, she said to herself "I need a man!" so she started going totally aggressive on at LEAST 2 guys, maybe every decent looking guy she saw. until one of them was stupid enough to scoop her up,

you're not missing out on anything.
 
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she's not a slut... she just liked the other guy more than she liked you. It's that simple. If she liked you more you would be the BF and he would be looking in, not visa versa.
 
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Some women...

...correction

Alot of women... are needy. They desperately need a man to feel any sense of satisfaction in life. Some will grasp on to anything just for the sake of saying that they have a boyfriend. They feel all special and sh*t when they talk to their friends when they say "My boyfriend did this... my boyfriend did that..."

In my opinion, these kind of chicks are a waste to the human race.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Juan and only

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If she was totally obsessed with you before (and didn't think you were particularly into her), then maybe this is just some crackpot plan to make you jealous. However, I don't think that's very likely and I'd say the above poster pretty much nailed it.
 
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