"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow.......I got played.........

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My last post, i talked about how this girl would not stop talking calling me, and was like obsesed with me. It was all cool bc i thought she was a cool chick and wanted to take her out, whatver.

Then on sunday i notice she is acting kind of weird. No biggy. Then today i find out she now has a boyfriend. Some guy she also just met....wtf is this ****?

Honestly, im so confused. I mean, this girl calls me non-stop and flirts with me, then gets a bf in less than a week? wtf is going on here?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah, she said to herself "I need a man!" so she started going totally aggressive on at LEAST 2 guys, maybe every decent looking guy she saw. until one of them was stupid enough to scoop her up,

you're not missing out on anything.
 
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she's not a slut... she just liked the other guy more than she liked you. It's that simple. If she liked you more you would be the BF and he would be looking in, not visa versa.
 
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Some women...

...correction

Alot of women... are needy. They desperately need a man to feel any sense of satisfaction in life. Some will grasp on to anything just for the sake of saying that they have a boyfriend. They feel all special and sh*t when they talk to their friends when they say "My boyfriend did this... my boyfriend did that..."

In my opinion, these kind of chicks are a waste to the human race.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If she was totally obsessed with you before (and didn't think you were particularly into her), then maybe this is just some crackpot plan to make you jealous. However, I don't think that's very likely and I'd say the above poster pretty much nailed it.
 
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