"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow.......I got played.........

AA423

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My last post, i talked about how this girl would not stop talking calling me, and was like obsesed with me. It was all cool bc i thought she was a cool chick and wanted to take her out, whatver.

Then on sunday i notice she is acting kind of weird. No biggy. Then today i find out she now has a boyfriend. Some guy she also just met....wtf is this ****?

Honestly, im so confused. I mean, this girl calls me non-stop and flirts with me, then gets a bf in less than a week? wtf is going on here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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superchristx

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yeah, she said to herself "I need a man!" so she started going totally aggressive on at LEAST 2 guys, maybe every decent looking guy she saw. until one of them was stupid enough to scoop her up,

you're not missing out on anything.
 

backbreaker

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she's not a slut... she just liked the other guy more than she liked you. It's that simple. If she liked you more you would be the BF and he would be looking in, not visa versa.
 

wheelin&dealin

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Some women...

...correction

Alot of women... are needy. They desperately need a man to feel any sense of satisfaction in life. Some will grasp on to anything just for the sake of saying that they have a boyfriend. They feel all special and sh*t when they talk to their friends when they say "My boyfriend did this... my boyfriend did that..."

In my opinion, these kind of chicks are a waste to the human race.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Juan and only

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If she was totally obsessed with you before (and didn't think you were particularly into her), then maybe this is just some crackpot plan to make you jealous. However, I don't think that's very likely and I'd say the above poster pretty much nailed it.
 
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