"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WOW! I Fvcked Up BIG TIME!

CORVETTE06

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wow i never did this before in my life.

i had plans to go hang out with a girl at 4pm. SHe said she could only hang out till 5pm. So, knowing that, I made plans with another girl i really like at 6pm.

basically what happened was the first girl ended up hanging out with me till 730 and i stood the other girl up. i sent her a text at 630 sayin i couldnt make it . she sent me a few more texts that i didnt respond to and one of them said 'how can u do this to me knowing that i like u'

i left her a voicemail saying that i was wit my cousin and she was cryin cuz her bf broke up wit her and i couldnt get out of it.

how do i get out of this?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The_Reaper

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You dirty dawg.

You should have excused yourself to meet the other girl, you shouldn't have stood her up, it's very bad form. Make it up to her somehow. Telling lies like that reminds me of my ex gf, so I feel nothing but revulsion for you and i hope you suffer in agony forever.


Kidding.

Make it up to her - do something nice.
 

KillaCam

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Ooo yeah, that was, umm, harsh?

Not a good look at all.

Pull the corny card. Box of chocolates, a cheesy as hell smile, and follow through with your original plans. If she reacts negatively still, take a few steps back and get back into PUA mode.

Whether or not you like it, if you intend to pursue this girl further, you are going to have to take some sort of responsibility for that. But keep a positive spin on what you've done, hence the cheesy smile and chocolates. Just make sure you're constantly rubbing off a positive attitude.
 

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Well done, you managed to boost her interest level. :)

Just ignore it and be nice to her the next time you see her..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gr8one

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The_Reaper said:
Make it up to her - do something nice.

I agree, and have used this one before. Tell her you'll make it up to her, and be sincere about it!

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