"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WOW! I Fvcked Up BIG TIME!

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CORVETTE06

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wow i never did this before in my life.

i had plans to go hang out with a girl at 4pm. SHe said she could only hang out till 5pm. So, knowing that, I made plans with another girl i really like at 6pm.

basically what happened was the first girl ended up hanging out with me till 730 and i stood the other girl up. i sent her a text at 630 sayin i couldnt make it . she sent me a few more texts that i didnt respond to and one of them said 'how can u do this to me knowing that i like u'

i left her a voicemail saying that i was wit my cousin and she was cryin cuz her bf broke up wit her and i couldnt get out of it.

how do i get out of this?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You dirty dawg.

You should have excused yourself to meet the other girl, you shouldn't have stood her up, it's very bad form. Make it up to her somehow. Telling lies like that reminds me of my ex gf, so I feel nothing but revulsion for you and i hope you suffer in agony forever.


Kidding.

Make it up to her - do something nice.
 
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KillaCam

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Ooo yeah, that was, umm, harsh?

Not a good look at all.

Pull the corny card. Box of chocolates, a cheesy as hell smile, and follow through with your original plans. If she reacts negatively still, take a few steps back and get back into PUA mode.

Whether or not you like it, if you intend to pursue this girl further, you are going to have to take some sort of responsibility for that. But keep a positive spin on what you've done, hence the cheesy smile and chocolates. Just make sure you're constantly rubbing off a positive attitude.
 
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Well done, you managed to boost her interest level. :)

Just ignore it and be nice to her the next time you see her..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gr8one

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The_Reaper said:
Make it up to her - do something nice.
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I agree, and have used this one before. Tell her you'll make it up to her, and be sincere about it!

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