"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WOW! I Fvcked Up BIG TIME!

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CORVETTE06

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wow i never did this before in my life.

i had plans to go hang out with a girl at 4pm. SHe said she could only hang out till 5pm. So, knowing that, I made plans with another girl i really like at 6pm.

basically what happened was the first girl ended up hanging out with me till 730 and i stood the other girl up. i sent her a text at 630 sayin i couldnt make it . she sent me a few more texts that i didnt respond to and one of them said 'how can u do this to me knowing that i like u'

i left her a voicemail saying that i was wit my cousin and she was cryin cuz her bf broke up wit her and i couldnt get out of it.

how do i get out of this?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You dirty dawg.

You should have excused yourself to meet the other girl, you shouldn't have stood her up, it's very bad form. Make it up to her somehow. Telling lies like that reminds me of my ex gf, so I feel nothing but revulsion for you and i hope you suffer in agony forever.


Kidding.

Make it up to her - do something nice.
 
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KillaCam

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Ooo yeah, that was, umm, harsh?

Not a good look at all.

Pull the corny card. Box of chocolates, a cheesy as hell smile, and follow through with your original plans. If she reacts negatively still, take a few steps back and get back into PUA mode.

Whether or not you like it, if you intend to pursue this girl further, you are going to have to take some sort of responsibility for that. But keep a positive spin on what you've done, hence the cheesy smile and chocolates. Just make sure you're constantly rubbing off a positive attitude.
 
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Well done, you managed to boost her interest level. :)

Just ignore it and be nice to her the next time you see her..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The_Reaper said:
Make it up to her - do something nice.
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I agree, and have used this one before. Tell her you'll make it up to her, and be sincere about it!

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