"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wow... I can't believe I'm finally a DJ...

neobrood

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Yesterday I got rejected by a chick... Went out with her, everything went well... except that her loyalty runs deep to her AFC insecure bf.

I swear I didn't even feel 1% of pain of rejection. Even if I tell myself... "Ok... you'e been rejected... You should sit in the corner and cry since you suck..."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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yes it is good that you do not feel pain fomr rejection and is part of being a DJ as this will mean you are not too shy to aproch but you have to remember being a DJ is like a package and that is only 1 part of it so yes well done but thta alone does not make you a DJ because a brick wall would not feel any pain fomr rejection either! tihnk of it like this, you need a moniter as part of a computer as with out it the computer is more aless usless, but a moniter on its own is also usless, you have to become the whole package to be a DJ.
 

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awesome neo.

Keep up the good work but don't forget that their is more to being a DJ than getting over rejection.
 

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The real test is how you react when you get rejected by a chick you had really high interest in.
 

Don Juanabbe

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But ask yourself, does a DJ waste his time on the unattainable - namely, a woman that has a boyfriend? Because for me, if there's any sniff of a boyfriend, I am not even going there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Paintballguy

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GJ man!

Heh this reminds me when I got rejected the first time after learning the dj way. I was like "did I just get reje... hey look at that hb over there".
 

Deadly_Assassin

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shot bro, u give me confidence to go up to this chick I like to ask her out. Its just rejection not the end of the world
 
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Originally posted by neobrood
Yesterday I got rejected by a chick... her loyalty runs deep to her AFC insecure bf.[/i]
This is not a rejection - if she has a "boyfriend" then were you really under consideration?

Only pursue women who are "available" and not already committed to someone else. It is good that you don't take rejection personally but how would you feel after 25 rejections? Go talk to single women and see what comes of it!!
 
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UltraMan

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Originally posted by rjherche
The real test is how you react when you get rejected by a chick you had really high interest in.
Exactly.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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