"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wow... I can't believe I'm finally a DJ...

neobrood

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Yesterday I got rejected by a chick... Went out with her, everything went well... except that her loyalty runs deep to her AFC insecure bf.

I swear I didn't even feel 1% of pain of rejection. Even if I tell myself... "Ok... you'e been rejected... You should sit in the corner and cry since you suck..."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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yes it is good that you do not feel pain fomr rejection and is part of being a DJ as this will mean you are not too shy to aproch but you have to remember being a DJ is like a package and that is only 1 part of it so yes well done but thta alone does not make you a DJ because a brick wall would not feel any pain fomr rejection either! tihnk of it like this, you need a moniter as part of a computer as with out it the computer is more aless usless, but a moniter on its own is also usless, you have to become the whole package to be a DJ.
 

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awesome neo.

Keep up the good work but don't forget that their is more to being a DJ than getting over rejection.
 

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The real test is how you react when you get rejected by a chick you had really high interest in.
 

Don Juanabbe

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But ask yourself, does a DJ waste his time on the unattainable - namely, a woman that has a boyfriend? Because for me, if there's any sniff of a boyfriend, I am not even going there.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Paintballguy

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GJ man!

Heh this reminds me when I got rejected the first time after learning the dj way. I was like "did I just get reje... hey look at that hb over there".
 

Deadly_Assassin

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shot bro, u give me confidence to go up to this chick I like to ask her out. Its just rejection not the end of the world
 
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Originally posted by neobrood
Yesterday I got rejected by a chick... her loyalty runs deep to her AFC insecure bf.[/i]
This is not a rejection - if she has a "boyfriend" then were you really under consideration?

Only pursue women who are "available" and not already committed to someone else. It is good that you don't take rejection personally but how would you feel after 25 rejections? Go talk to single women and see what comes of it!!
 
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Originally posted by rjherche
The real test is how you react when you get rejected by a chick you had really high interest in.
Exactly.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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